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[Abby-09]

I keep catching my ex staring at my ass a lot like a lot and checking me out even tho he likes another girl what the hell is he doing?

[MrOracle]

I don't know why he's your ex, but just because he likes another girl doesn't mean he's not still horny and doesn't find you physically attractive.

I understand that women see sex as kind of an extension of love/romance/an emotional connection, but that's not how men work. A man can have a girl he's romantically interested in - or not - but either way, he's going to have SEXUAL desire for nearly EVERY woman he finds physically attractive, and he can have sex with those women and enjoy it completely without having any romantic or emotional feelings for her at all. For men, sex and romance are two completely separate things that sometimes overlap, but you must ALWAYS remember that a man will look at an attractive girl and have sexual attraction for her, but the majority of the time, this is ONLY sexual attraction, not romantic or relationship interest. Never, ever assume that sexual attraction means romantic attraction, because most of the time it doesn't, and the few times that it does, you'll know it because he'll behave very differently, focused on the relationship part more than the sexual part.

[Abby-09]

okay that’s a long paragraph thank u for takin the time to right that makes sense

[Wubs3000]

he's being weird. I think staring in a mystified way at someones face or eyes is flattering, but their ass is just creepy. Unless you are dating and both parties are ok with it. Tell him to stop staring at you.

[Abby-09]

No I don’t have a problem with it he’s got me staring at his thing a lot too

[Wubs3000]

Wait you guys stare at our crouch? What even is there to stare at unless we are hard you can't really see anything.
But if you don't dislike it, then get back together or just ignore him.

[Abby-09]

I don't know if he likes me like that tho or just fine me hot yk. But yeah especially grey sweatpants but sometimes u can see the outline like oml

[mermaidcancermoon]

It means he's noncommittal and will wander no matter who he's with. If you get with him, he'll stare at other women.

[Abby-09]

oh okay thank u so much girly <3

[WhitneySnow]

He still likes you. Especially your ass.

[Abby-09]

like damm I think he like may still would date me but not a huge crush

[WhitneySnow]

I think he would def still date you. He might even have a huge crush on you.

[Abby-09]

I don't know tbh but like I’m trying to get over him yk

[WhitneySnow]

I totally get it. Prolly best not to encourage him.

[Abby-09]

yeah cause he was touching my thighs right before he got a girl

[WhitneySnow]

That’s messed up. I can see why you wanna get over him.

[Abby-09]

yep but he aparently liked me and her and asked her out first

[WhitneySnow]

Ohhhhh. That really sucks.

[Abby-09]

ikr but like I Was wisperint somethitn into my friends ear and
Bent over not realizing it and he walked in the room
Staried at it and smiled and looked me in the eyes

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah he’s def still into you

[Abby-09]

And I was sitting on the ground with my legs spread a litle and him and his friends randomly sat down across from us and he kept looking in between my legs

[WhitneySnow]

He really wants you sexually

[Abby-09]

honeslty i think he does ngl and he’s like always staring at my ass and I think I even made him hard

[WhitneySnow]

He totally wants to get with you

[Abby-09]

I don't know do u think?

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah I do

[Man-O-Metal]

1. He’s not treating you with respect.
2. Doesn’t sound like he respects anybody.
3. Just stay away from him. No use trying to correct his ill mannered behavior.

[Abby-09]

1. How isn’t he
2. Wdym
3. And okay thanks

[Man-O-Metal]

1. Looking at your behind is not being respectful of you as a female. It’s the same as a guy looking at a girl’s chest while she’s talking to him.
2. If he looks at you in a provocative way, while being interested in another girl (as per the description), that means he doesn’t have respect for you or the other girl. So, with that, can you say he treats anyone else with respect?
3. No problem. Just don’t want to see you get hurt.

[Abby-09]

Okok I understand that thanks

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Guys do stuff like that cause he is a man this is typical
this is very common maybe he still has feelings he got
a new girl but still refuses to let go of you

[Abby-09]

ohhh okay okay makes sense thansk

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@abby-09 You're welcome :)

[Whatever2929292]

IF he likes another girl that is a problem. But how do you know he likes her?

[Abby-09]

cause she’s pinned with a heart but he magically keeps talking to me now that I don’t give him attention

[Whatever2929292]

Have you told him why you aren't giving him attention? I mean he can't control what she does though.

[Abby-09]

No but it’s obvious if u have another girl pinned wirb a heart then yeah u prob like them

[Whatever2929292]

Yea I guess if he did it. Have you asked him why he did that though?

[Abby-09]

Nope

[Whatever2929292]

Well you have to communicate. He does not know the reason you are ignoring him...

[Abby-09]

True but he kept talking to me and I had on sweatpants and they where really tight around my ass and he kept lookin

[Whatever2929292]

oh this is your ex... Then who cares if he talks to another woman? I thought this was your boyfriend. I have no idea.

If you want him back then you need to ask him out again. You aren't committed anymore he maybe moved on

[Abby-09]

nah he wasn’t committed so
That’s what happened

[Whatever2929292]

Then I say either ask him these questions or let it go.

[Abby-09]

Okay thanks

[Whatever2929292]

You're welcome. If you really still like him then you can ask him back out again. But I assume if you don't give him attention he will loose interest and leave you alone.

Kind of creepy if he really was checking you out though.

[Abby-09]

How’s that creepy

[Whatever2929292]

Being a pervert but who knows if that was what he was doing

[Red_Arrow]

Enjoying the view. He has a new gal, but he still like looking at you, mainly your ass.

[Abby-09]

okok so he still finds me attractive?

[Red_Arrow]

Yes. Maybe not enough to go with you again, but enough to like looking at you.

[Anonymous]

At your age anything is possible. Plus boys your age really don’t understand the dynamics of being together vs broken up. They get an impulse that overrides all logic.

[Abby-09]

Oh didn’t know that thanks

[Opinion Owner]

When it comes to relationships girls usually know “what’s going on” about 1 to 2 years ahead of boys at that age.

[Abby-09]

Wdym!

[Opinion Owner]

Girls usually mature faster than boys when it comes to these things.

[Abby-09]

Ohh makes sense

[serious]

Simple he has wandering eyes and his loyalty is questionable.

[Anonymous]

Why is he near enough to you to be seeing your ass if he is an ex? Is this one of those we-broke-up-but-we're-still-seeing-each-other dramas?

[Abby-09]

Nope we go to schoool togethe

[Opinion Owner]

You can never know why other people do what they do. However, as long as you care about why he is doing that, you are letting him occupy part of your life. Let go of caring about it and move forward.

[Abby-09]

Okay Tysm <3

[Opinion Owner]

I sense that you aren't really ready to move forward and leave him in your past, but the ability to do that will help you in the future. Good luck!

[jeremy_09]

He will look no matter who he likes and your boyfriends will look at other girls, just don't worry about it.

[Abby-09]

that’s sad tho that your bfs will look too but it’s expect

[jeremy_09]

It's harmless really.

[Abby-09]

Not really tho

[jeremy_09]

Yeah it doesn't mean we love you any less and it's biological for us. I wouldn't run off after a pretty girl I see.

[Abby-09]

ohh okay well that makes sense

[nisnaia]

Maybe he doesn't like you but he does like your ass.

[Abby-09]

maybe!

[Deku2009]

Just tell him to stop staining (especially if it’s making you feel uncomfortable) tell a teacher if tge problem gets worse.

[Abby-09]

huh? I don’t care at all I don’t have a problem
With him doing that

[Deku2009]

Then still he straight forward with him especially if you want it to stop

[Abby-09]

I don’t want him to stop

[Deku2009]

Ok he definitely still into you (is the other girl jealous or something , or has she not noticed the stairs?)

[altdbob]

If you have a nice ass whats the problem?
Just because you two didn't make it as a couple doesn't mean he doesn't mean he can't enjoy looking at the goods.

[Abby-09]

facts

[one1wild00]

He may like another girl, but he still may like you and like the memories you had.

[Abby-09]

facts

[Paulychicagoluv]

Just looking at what he messed up with leaving you?

[Abby-09]

Idkk

[Paulychicagoluv]

More than likely

[Abby-09]

Cause also it was the last day of school the other day and I couldn’t open my locker he walked by and we turned around and looked at each other at the same time and he was staring at it
And then looked me in my eyes

[Paulychicagoluv]

Don't fall for it. He's just going to play the 2 of you

[ComingHere91]

Maybe he saw ypur ass and can't forget? I don't know really

[Abby-09]

Okok maybe

[ComingHere91]

Has he ever seen ur ass?

[Abby-09]

no but he’s seen me in like short shorts

[ComingHere91]

I see. I don't know why he looked at ur ass lol
Maybe he is just horny guy and looks at girls ass? lol

[PatriceONeal]

How do you know if he's staring unless you're staring 🤔

[Abby-09]

True but sometimes I’ll look somewhere and notice he is or I acidently do something and he is

[PatriceONeal]

Then ig he's probably reminiscing

[downtowndiner]

He is 100% checking out your fine ass. I’m not sure how else to put it. But if it bothers you, ask him outright.

[Abby-09]

nope doesn’t bother me

[downtowndiner]

I have an ex and it’s pure pleasure to walk behind her

[clampfan101]

Maybe next time you catch him in the act tell him to back off if it’s too difficult to ignore.

[TheAfrikan]

Probably he misses that ass n he wants to chew it so bad.

[Abby-09]

what-

[lickysplit]

Just because a guy has a girl, he still looks at others, can't help it

[Abby-09]

okok good to know

[lickysplit]

Like window shopping, not going to buy, just look

[lickysplit]

Girls do it too

[Anonymous]

If you want to add me on snap abby my username is - zach30821

[SayLesss]

He’s testing to see if he can be a player

[Abby-09]

oh. 😭

[SayLesss]

If I were you I’d cuck him just to teach him a lesson

[Abby-09]

Cuck?

[SayLesss]

Get him to find self-pleasure in seeing you with other men. It’s essentially the highest level of a female player

[Abby-09]

ohhh Imma do that I thought u said suck for a sec I was gonna say um

[SayLesss]

I thought you knew how to read lmao. But yeah just push (show him attraction) and pull (remove attraction) heavy. Be on some puppeteer shit

[AviatorTom]

You're 14 and you have an ex?

[Abby-09]

i can tell your way older because if u where a teen u would know that teenagers even 13 year olds are getting pregnant and my ex has dated like 25 people he’s not loyal at all

[exitseven]

He is picturing you buck naked.

[Abby-09]

Probably

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he’s still into you.

[Abby-09]

I think he was when he had another girl and he likes this girl now but is still doing it

[Opinion Owner]

It is possible to like more than one person.

It does sound like he still likes you or how you look

Greatly depends on why he’s an ex and if you have moved on

[Abby-09]

nah but the other day was the last day of school and I was struggling to open my locker and he came out and we turned around at the exact time and he was staring at my ass and then looked me in the eyes

[Opinion Owner]

@abby-09 sounds like he was checking you out.

You want him back?

[Sparkie460]

He must be missing your great looking ass

[Abby-09]

lmaooo

[RuthlessAggression]

It means you and him are YOUNG immature teenagers

[Abby-09]

Facts

[RuthlessAggression]

Yep!

[sharrinfoxx]

You probably have a really nice ass

[Abby-09]

Ty ty

[sharrinfoxx]

Probably smells great too oops there I am thinking out loud again lol

[Fuentes]

Sounds normal lol he may miss u

[Abby-09]

I think he does

[Guardian45]

You're 14 and you have an Ex?

[Abby-09]

yeah

[Guardian45]

He's being a dog.

[Abby-09]

Wdym

[Guardian45]

Teen guys are like a dog with 2 Ds. They WANT EVERYTHING NOW!

[Abby-09]

Yeah ik ass, tits everything omg

[Guardian45]

There you go!

[Guardian45]

You have to be the adult, and put the leash on that dog! Don't let him persuade you to do ANYTHING you DONT want to do!

[Abby-09]

yeah ik but I wanted to do stuff with him yk but I don’t really like him anymore

[Guardian45]

Same rule applies to all men you date from now on. YOU are da Boss!

[Abby-09]

Thank u ❤️

[BillyBalls]

All straight guys check out girls' asses

[Abby-09]

Okok

[WraithRogue04]

He clearly likes you still.

[Abby-09]

Idrk

[WraithRogue04]

I already sent you a dm.

[Abby-09]

Where on here?

[WraithRogue04]

Insta

[JohnK123]

He still wants u I guess

[Abby-09]

ohhh

[JohnK123]

Or he just thinks ur hot

[JohnK123]

Which I mean based off ur pics… JK JK LMAOOO

[Abby-09]

Thank uuu but yeah I think it’s a little of both

[JohnK123]

Ya lmaooooo

[JohnK123]

If u need guy advice just lmk

[Zolly99999]

He is still interested in you.

[Abby-09]

i think the same

[Anonymous]

Checking out your nice ass, lol.

[Abby-09]

nah bro but he still looks me up and
Down sometimes and then in the eye

[Opinion Owner]

He likes you!!!

[Abby-09]

yeah but I think he likes this other girl

[Anonymous]

He probably can’t help it lol

[Abby-09]

Lmaoo

[Opinion Owner]

I agree try to cuck him and give him a lesson

[Abby-09]

Wdym cuck or suck?

[Abby-09]

Okayy

[driven159]

he's a pervert

[Abby-09]

He is

[Abby-09]

Nott

[Abby-09]

why would u say that?

[Abby-09]

It’s normal for guys to look at girls ass and tits it’s like girls looking at their dicks

[Wubs3000]

Its normal to glance here and there or check someone out, but staring a lot consistently is kinda weird.

[Abby-09]

I don’t find it weird ngl I find it attractive tbh

[MarkyMark77]

@abby-09 lol what do you do when u catch him staring?

what kinda outfits u wear?

[Anonymous]

Gross. You’re 14.

[Abby-09]

how’s that gross?

[Abby-09]

No anwser?

[MarkyMark77]

@abby-09 its not gross. ignore him.

and honestly he just likes ur ass lol. what kinda booty u got?

[Abby-09]

lmao okay thanks and I posted what I look like in one of my questions

[Opinion Owner]

@MarkyMark77 Why are you asking a minor about the shape of their buttocks?

Because that’s what pedophiles do.

And I’ll repeat myself. “Gross.”

[Abby-09]

What?

[MarkyMark77]

@abby-09 i didn't see a pic in any of your questions. did you get my dm?