Finally told a guy that I have feelings for him, and said that I didn't tell him earlier cause I was too shy. What would he think?

[Anonymous]

I also told him that I've never ever confessed my feelings to a guy hence doing so puts me in a vulnerable position. What would he think?

[IsoUser]

I would tend to say as a guy personally that he would understand but then again I can't honestly speak for in general just jerks Lol. I am sure that you're a very special girl that deserves the upmost respect and attention and he would be lucky to even demand your attention. Just don't put up with guys that are jerks!

[Vikkrram]

He won't think anything coz everyone understands that it's really take a courage to confess your feelings to other person. And there's always a chance of rejection so many people don't do it either so...

[RedStealthOperative]

It's risky, and depends on the type of person he is to determine how he would respond. But generally speaking, I think most guys would be understanding. If you see good qualities in him enough to like him, then why wouldn't he be?

[spartan55]

You should have just said you had feelings for him and left it at that. The other two statements add unnecessary pressure to the situation.

[Asker]

How do those 2 statements add pressure to the guy?

[spartan55]

Because if he rejects you he'll feel terrible because you said it was your first time confessing and that you were vulnerable. He knows you are vulnerable, no need to beat a dead 🐴 horse.

[Anonymous]

Kind of depends whether you caught him off guard with your confession.

[Danny_dan92]

What would he think? Did he not tell you anything?