What is your personality type according to the Myers–Briggs test?

[DoctorSex]

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

If you aren't sure, spend 7minutes to take the test, then place your vote here, finally comment your personality type so that you can peep👀 or connect with your soulmate (s) on GAG!
Good luck! :-D

ESTJ

ISTJ

ENFJ

ESTP

ENFP

ISFJ

Mines a little more nuanced...

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Who ticked ENFJ? We need to talk. ASAP!

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

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Hi there guys,
I have a small favour to ask.
I have a goal on GAG and to help me on my goal can you head over to MyTake and leave a comment, it helps the algorithm notice me. I will be posting every week!
Thanks and God bless!

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Anonymous]

This is what I got

So apparently I’m INFJ-T, it’s pretty spot on (especially about the part how I don’t handle criticisms well lmao)

[DoctorSex]

Mmmm

I better be careful how I phrase this then...

Alright... I think I'm ready,
What's the best way to open up a person that's shut down on you?

Kind regards,

[Opinion Owner]

No worries you’re good, feel free to ask me anything 😆

I think one of the best ways is for you to start opening up to them first, that way it shows that you trust them or are comfortable enough with them to be vulnerable. Eventually, the person will also reciprocate.

[DoctorSex]

That's interesting, I come from a culture that teaches the children that Love is a mirror. It is also the only language people speak.
If you want someone to smile, best thing to do, is to start smiling yourself,
And if you want some to open up.. be open.

Feel free to ask you anything... are you sure about that? Have you not read m username my lovely?

[Opinion Owner]

Wow that’s a beautiful way of putting it and I wholeheartedly agree. Love is a two way street so in order to receive you gotta be ready to give as well.

And yep, if you got a question then I’ll answer it and I mean any question

[DoctorSex]

You might want to charge your phone lol this could be a long one lol and you've got like 2% battery my lovely.

Kind regards,

[DoctorSex]

As you've got * xD

[Opinion Owner]

Lol yep I already have my phone charged so it’s all good, ask away

[DoctorSex]

Lol now remember, you said I can ask you any question and you know full well that I'm a man and you're a woman of similar dating age.
And although I've highlighted that my name is Doctor Sex, both individual words being intrusive by nature, you did say you don't take criticism well but you're open on this occasion, I want us both to be sure that this is the case before I ask you the question I intend to ask you next...

[Opinion Owner]

I’m actually open to criticisms and welcome them (when I ask for it) and I’ve also learned not to take things too personally so I’ll be fine.

But just an FYI, I am already dating an awesome guy who after taking the test turns out to be an ENFJ lol, so I’m open to any questions even if it’s controversial (I love those kind of topics) but I won’t be open to anything that’s crossing the boundaries. Hope you get what I mean lol

[DoctorSex]

Lol it sounds like you're backing out and backing down... it sounds like a cop out my lovely.

FYI I burst out laughing when you said ENFJ 😂
Did you just give him the test?

Kind regards,

[Opinion Owner]

Nope not backing out, I’m fine with just answering questions lol

And yeah I gave him the test to see if we’re a match lol Not sure if INFJ and ENFJs are a match tbh, I guess we’re very similar except for the fact that he’s extroverted

[DoctorSex]

Hey,
How are you?

[DermalPunch]

I am an ENFP. Have been forever. And just did this test a week ago actually. Still ENFP. However, my introverted elements are a bit more pronounced at the moment.

[DoctorSex]

Remarkable! I've come across 4 straight diplomat personality classes in a row! I'm truly honoured by your divine presence. However, let's see if you're truly an ENFP, or a spy!

Have you come to a conclusion on why we humans are here? More succinctly, what is the purpose of human life?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[DermalPunch]

Well I'm a Muslim so I believe the puropse of life is to worship the Creator without intecessors upon the guidance of the Prophet Muhammad so we can attain paradise.

[DoctorSex]

Ah, well it makes sense that you're spiritual or religious to some degree.
Thank you

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[slatyb]

There are 16. Mine is iNTP. I used to think these types were real but now I’m skeptical of the value of all personality typing systems.

[DoctorSex]

"The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existence."

That's the first line of your personality reading.. lol
And it works hand in hand with your comment.

I think there's a lot of truths in what you're saying, sir. Now here's my question and feel free to ignore me, I won't think you to be insensitive, but I think your personality type has the ability to give me an original answer that's not boring,

I partly suffer from being a perfectionist, what advice would you have for someone who suffers with this traits?

Kind regards,

[NYCQuestions1976]

I'm an introvert with extrovert tendencies. I'm also a pillar in this community and morale for the masses.

[DoctorSex]

However what were your results on the test?

[NYCQuestions1976]

I didn't take the test. What personality profile does that make me? 🤔😂

[DoctorSex]

C. U. N. T

Caring
Unwavering
Negotiator
Transparent

Congrats! You're a CUNT lol

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[NYCQuestions1976]

I question the medical and psychological validity of these results.

[DoctorSex]

It's been peer reviewed..

[NYCQuestions1976]

Doubtful. I think it's been pier reviewed.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Thanks for Most Helpful. 👍

[Dinklex3]

^^^
ESFP

[DoctorSex]

Uh Ohh, here we go..
I've come across your personality type quite abit and have learnt to keep the conversation light lol

How do you decide what the best way to strike up a conversation with someone new?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Dinklex3]

Depends on the situation, where we are, or whatever i have on my mind

[DoctorSex]

That's a fair point.
Do you have an overarching philosophy or rule you could share with others that don't have your level of flare or charisma?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Amy10223]

Dr Sex, I took this test but none of the above were me. It was one of the rarer ones.

[DoctorSex]

Good evening,
How are you feeling today Amy? What were your results?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Amy10223]

Yes, I did take it, and my result was Advocate. I've taken it twice with the same results.
I'm feeling fine, thanks. However I did leave oyu a message which I dont think you've seen (private one). And so I am not feeling good abiout that!

[Amy10223]

I am an INFJ

[DoctorSex]

@Amy10223 forgive me for the late response, you deserve better. However I've been tied up with my own INFJ at present :) and she's quite a handful. I'll take a look at your message.

Kind regards,

[Amy10223]

Ah, is the INFJ a rare one? Thats ok. Take your time.

[Amy10223]

I just read this personalty type is the rarest--only 2% of the general population?

[DoctorSex]

Yes. INFJ are extremely rare and the golden child amongst the MBTI community:)

[letuswaltzforthedead]

According to the test, it's either INTP, INTJ, or ISTP. I already know I'm a INFP instead.

[DoctorSex]

Did you manage to compete the test? There's often small differences between classes, it would be fun to know which one the test result gave you, as I do have a follow up question.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[letuswaltzforthedead]

https://imgur.com/a/M1d0kPS
I took the quiz again. I just mentioned the types above since they're usually the ones the test gives me.

[DoctorSex]

Super cool,
So here's my question. As a logistician, how do you switch off your switched on mind? I'd like to know what skills you've learnt to help others like you who may have a tendency to suffer from insomnia.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[DoctorSex]

@letuswaltzforthedead

Holy crap! I just recently retook the personality test and I was initially mistyped xD I'm ENTJ.

I recently had a brief spell with an INFP as I thought that was my ideal personality match for ENFJ.. didn't work, way too much loathing and feelings lol
I came back here to see what female is INTP haha and here you are again. I'm going to be asking you a lot of questions if you could kindly help me as I dissect your personality type further.

Thank you,

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Sleeping isn't usually an issue for me, keeping a schedule has been enough for me (its usually when I break it that I end up awake most of the night). Otherwise, I haven't really found many ways to fixing that when it does happen, I know pills are usually how people deal with that problem tbh.
Also, be wary of the results the test gives you, it'll usually mistype you. That's why I've tried looking into cognitive functions more now.

[DoctorSex]

"Otherwise, I haven't really found many ways to fixing that when it does happen, "

Thank you for this statement. Because I had the fix but I enacted the fix on a INFP girl that I was seeing and her feelings went wild. I studied psychotherapy for over 10 years and so I believe being empathetic to emotions influenced my choices in the MBTI test.

Anyway, allow me to be succinct and ask you a Philosophical question, the glass slipper so to speak.

Order Vs Love

Order is important as I'm sure you may agree. To achieve anything substantial in life, one needs an orderly, predictable routine that steadily chips away at the mountains in our lives.
Equally when dealing with people, people like people who have consistent and predictable personalities.

Going back to the idea of a daily schedule, could we then conceptualise order as being a cage with no bars?

On the other hand we have love. Love wants to be free to explore what is in ones heart and to spread ones wings. Love hates cages.

Order can feel like a cage for love and love can feel like a gang leader plotting a prison riot for order!

How does one bring those two seemingly opposing forces into harmony? Have you figured out the answer?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I agree with that last statement of yours. I'm not the most orderly person so I usually have to keep a schedule to ensure I finish any task that would otherwise borer mer. That has been harder to do since my mind tend to wonder off a lot. Usually it works more on some days than others.

[DoctorSex]

Your mind wonders. I wander, would you class yourself as a creative?

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Not necessarily, I'm not particularly good at coming up with unique ideas or anything. Usually, my mind wonders when I read or see something interesting and then I have several different questions I want answers to. That's usually when time passes me by and I mess up my schedule. Does that occur to you often?

[DoctorSex]

Thank you, more than you know. You've helped me figure out the missing piece to my wife search.
I've never come across an INTJ-T Female before and it makes sense, they are pretty much as rare as a ENTJ male. Your weaknesses are my strengths and my weaknesses are your strengths.
Let me just say that I'm a network engineer, but about 3 years ago I wrote a 3 book series of "children's books". Well infact the books had an ulterior motive. Each story was designed to give children a coping mechanism when dealing with certain traumas in their lives.
My books have 8 characters and one day I sat wondering whether I would leave my readers so dissatisfied with the lack of information on the individual characters. So I wrote 3 separate books for each of the characters. Now I have a 27 books! Each story like the end point of a spiders web that is connected and interwoven with every other end point in the web.. I'm quite proud of what I've accomplished. It's a masterpiece in therapeutic story telling.

Yet there it is... Sitting on my shelf. A million dollar industry.
The reason for this is because I've planned to give this to my wife. A type of Excalibur test. Most women enjoy the stories but are unable to see the spider web. That is the test. It will take a superior analytical, patient mind to see the web, internalise it and sort through it all.
Many women only see a thread at best and fall in love with me based on the thread. But cannot internalise anything more than this. :-/. I'm looking for the woman who is able to see the whole web, and I believe when she sees what I have done, she will instinctively know what to do with the stories. Whether publish or raise our children with it or who knows what else. I know she will know what to do with it. It is my gift to her.

[DoctorSex]

Yes, sometimes I procrastinate when I fill my days with too many goals and end up sleeping late. The lack of sleep causes the procrastination. Also I spend a lot of time when I'm screening a potential wife and that causes me to sleep late which again causes procrastination.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

That's really cool, I hope you do succeed, all those books must be really interesting considering how much effort you've put in them.

[menina]

I took the test once and it was INFJ which suits me.

[DoctorSex]

An advocate! Wow, that's cool..
So then maybe your insight into the human nature can help so one of us here.. how do you respond to someone you care about but who has fallen well short of your expectations?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[menina]

Yes, that's right. That's a great question!
I believe this happens more often that we can imagine. I guess I would think about what they did or what they said and try to see the situation from different perspectives. Then I could make a decision.

Thank you.
Kind regards

[DoctorSex]

Ok, let's try a situation.

You have a child and they arrived home with bad grades. You know they're smart and it probably has something to do with procrastination before finally getting the assignment started with little to no time to explore the task.
The child doesn't show you the grades, but you find it in their room...

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[menina]

I would talk to him/her to know what happened. Then I probably would try to find a way of making sure that they wouldn't have bad grades again.

[DoctorSex]

Mmmm

Ok, thank you

Kind regards,

[menina]

Did my answer help you?

You're welcome.

[DoctorSex]

@menina I'll be honest with you, because we both share a similar personality profile (that of the diplomat), your answer left a lot to be desired.

You may prefer a better question? What do you think my lovely...

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[menina]

Ok, if you say so. Yes you can ask me another question.

[DoctorSex]

Sure,
The purpose of this question, my true intent, was for people to really know each other and the differences between us. For me, and I'm not sure if you'd agree, but each of us have as a strength that is anothers weakness. Where one is blind, another can see.
Most of my questions are related to relationships and leadership in a group setting so maybe I can give you a better more simple question along those lines?
Let's flip it, If you were an employee that has fallen short of your duties and responsibilities, what kind of leadership would you hope for, to get you back ok track without demoralising you?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[menina]

I see what you mean. I like the kind of questions you ask and they make me think.

That's a tough question but I guess I would want someone who would motivate me and give me more reasons to do a great job. Not sure if this is a good answer.

[DoctorSex]

That's a perfect and simple answer.
Simply perfect. :)

As an aside note, are you more motivated by the carrot or the stick do you think?
Thank you for your nice words. I like thinking people, especially women that enjoy hypothetical questions.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[menina]

Well, thank you. "As an aside note, are you more motivated by the carrot or the stick do you think?" - What exactly does that mean?

You're welcome, feel free to ask me more questions.

[DoctorSex]

Apologies, let me be clear. The carrot or the stick describes which way a person would ideally be moved to action quickest.

Carrot - "Menina, if you get this task done by Tuesday, I'll give you a treat!"

Stick - "Menina, if you don't get this task done by Tuesday, you're fired from the group."

On a side note of a side note, do you think we can be friends one day? You're the rarest personality type and you must feel like the vast majority of people don't understand you.
I am an ENFJ personality type so I share come common strengths and grievances lol

So I would like to propose a friendship, only I'd you would advocate for that? I can draft the contract by the morning... lol equally incompletely respect your right to your peace, I would hate above all things, to disturb your spiritual peace.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[DoctorSex]

* (corrections: the spell checker on this app messes up all my good humour -_-)

*...* So I would like to propose a friendship, only If you would advocate for that? I can draft the contract by the morning... lol equally I'd completely respect your right to your peace, I would hate above all things, to disturb your spiritual peace.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[menina]

Ok now I understand what this means. Thank you for explaining. In this case I would prefer the carrot.

Of course we can be friends. I guess we understand each other.

[DoctorSex]

Forgive me, I forgot to thank you.

Your answers have come in handy recently when dealing with an INFJ girl.

I hope you are getting enough sleep and eating lots of raw fruits and veg. It's the best thing for your inner queen. 👸

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[menina]

It's fine.

Thanks, I'm doing my best. I hope you are too. :)

[YHL6965]

INFJ-T
Individual traits: Introverted – 88%, Intuitive – 76%, Feeling – 69%, Judging – 58%, Turbulent – 88%
Role: Diplomat
Strategy: Constant Improvement

[DoctorSex]

Another INFJ!
Cool, one of the rarest, if not the rarest personality type!
Im very honoured to meet you.
Like trying to find a Pangolin in the wild.

Not many are equipped to answer the following question but I'd love your take on it..

What role does creativity play in a successful life?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[YHL6965]

Well, to me, creativity is a great domain to have fun and, to me, a successful life is not made of material or social achievements, but of personal satisfaction and that includes having fun so, to an extent, letting your creativity flow, nourishing it, expressing it.

Besides, when my creativity gets restricted, it can feel very frustrating as it feels like removing the fun of a task by turning it mundane, plain.

Overall, I think creativity is an important "engine" for a successful life, something that helps you go forward, but that you still need to maintain, care about and not obstruct. I know it does not necessarily fit well with society's cold, superficial and material views on what a successful life could be, but that's the way it is and I think it's a whole problem to solve : how to find common ground between the way your mind works and how society works.

I could probably go on and on about this as I think it's a very deep and complex topic, but that's a short-ish summary of what I think.

[DoctorSex]

Wonderful!

I've recently has an epiphany in regards to this. You probably understand me better than most. When you get that intense feeling from something sacred inside you when it discovers an idea that lights the flame of creativity.
It's helping me colour my whole internal world and re-evaluate everything with another level of depth.
I'm happy to share with you if you're interested but I have a question, would it be right in saying food is a big aspect of your life?
How would you define the place of good food in living a successful life?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[YHL6965]

Oh yeah, when you have that idea that has so much creative potential, it feels so great just thinking about all the things that could be.

Definitely a big aspect of my life. I love good food, and all sorts of kind and I'm always up to discovering new dishes, new ways to enjoy food. Plus, you get to enjoy it multiple times every day and it's part of these little things that just make you feel nice, especially if you are more mindful about it.

Honestly, I'd rather live with a minimal amount of money but have good food all the time rather than being a billionaire but not being able to eat good food. For me, it's part of these things in life that are close to my heart in a way because I always enjoy going out if I know there will be good food and not eating good food can affect my morale to an extent too.

[ArtemisSilver]

Intj or Entj depending on my mood when I take the test.

[DoctorSex]

Do my eyes fail me.. or is it true? Am I in the presence of a real life commander personality type. I am honoured by your presence.
Allow me to be quick with a question, and not waste your time sir.

What are the keys to leadership?

Kind regards,

[ArtemisSilver]

Keys to leadership? Shared mission, mutual respect and a fair share of the treasure.

That and a willingness to deliver judgement when called for. There needs to be consequence for breaking faith for order to exist.

[DoctorSex]

I absolutely agree with you, so well said.
I remember at the opening of The Art Of War, there is a story of 2 kingdoms arriving at a truce, when suddenly some nights before the celebration a General for one of the armies arrives in the presence of his emperor with battle strategies. Unfortunately he was laughed off to the kingdoms detriment.
That had me thinking back then, many people when planning forward, plan for the good days, very few people build in contingency plans and disciplinary procedures.
Thank you

Kind regards,

[AviatorTom]

[Lyndsielee666]

I don’t like trying new things because I’m an introvert like it said but whatever Lmfao

[DoctorSex]

Ok, so I'm sitting here and your notification pops up, I see you've posted a picture that says ADVENTURER, but your first sentence was, I dont like trying new things lol
I really want to know what's cooking up in that noggin of yours.
Your personality type seems to get bored quickly so I haven't got much time so let me ask you a question my lovely and hopefully you can give me some advice. What's the best way to keep our minds, creative?

Kind regards,

[Lyndsielee666]

Fuck if I know friend. I’m not creative at all😂

[DoctorSex]

Dude.. wtf happened to you man? Lol

Kind regards,

[DoctorSex]

Can I do a little bit of psychotherapy? I want to be honest with you so you know my intentions..

Are you first, second, or third born from your mother?

[Lyndsielee666]

From my mother? I’m the first born but me and my brother never had a relationship with her.

[DoctorSex]

You're first born, that explains the green hair colour.
Is your favourite colour either green or yellow?

[Lyndsielee666]

The green hair was done because my cousin died back in January and it was his favorite color 😞

[DoctorSex]

It sounds like you've really been through a lot emotionally and from where I've sitting, it feels like you've gone inside yourself.. would that be safe to say

[Lyndsielee666]

Most definitely true unfortunately

[DoctorSex]

That probably wasn't easy for you to say. But you're honest and that takes incredible strength. So there's definitely something powerful inside you to work with.

If you ever want to chat it out, message me as a public forum isn't the best place to discuss such a sensitive topic.

It's important for you to know that I consider myself an African priest, I only say this to make you aware that I accept 3 crow's feet, and 2 monkey palms as payment for my services.

Both monkey palms must belong to the left hand...

[wouterv]

I am an ENFP-A Assertive campaigner 😇😅 I should probely retake it soon

[DoctorSex]

A campaigner! We are honoured! I have a quirky question for you! Fill in the blanks?

Art is to creativity like <___> is to <___>. ?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

Kind regards,

[wouterv]

Art is to creativity like waves are to the moon.

Never seen an question like that before so I thought of something that's an end product and how it starts

[DoctorSex]

Wonderfully said.

Thank you.
Stay free ✊🏾

[Anonymous]

INTJ or INTP depending on the version of the test. One gave percentages, and the T/P category came up 50/50.

So yeah, I'm either a judging asshole or perceptive asshole depending on the situation

[FictionalCharacter]

I don’t know and I’m not going to take a long 20 min test. Just to be labeled and judged.

[Anonymous]

I'm an INTJ, not that any of this stuff matters. It's all 100% completely made up. Even horoscopes and astrology have more "science" to them than the Myers-Briggs.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Mine usually results in INTJ.

[DoctorSex]

Wow.. very interesting, then I better be very careful when asking my next question, because you are a thinking man and even now... You're probably assessing my intentions.
In any case you do have a rare personality type so you're probably a gracious loner and maybe you can impart some wisdom from your ivory tower sir?

How do you, when multiple factors are concerned, arrive at a rationale conclusion?

Kind regards,

[D_Bone_Steak]

Well... I strip out my own personal emotions as much as I can first and then it's a simple math game only instead of numbers it's principles and logic. (true premise + true premise = true conclusion) If I'm just trolling I will turn it into a joke that sometimes only I get. You know your stuff because yes, I'm like "what is this mother fucker up to?" in my brain. ... and yes, I do absolutely love being alone. I can play the game and be social with ease, I can get laid with ease, and if I have to I can convince people of things (I just don't like to), but the truth is I'd rather not bother with people and their social games. Like when I get awards for achievements... having to accept it publicly really feels like a punishment. Although I do know it's something most other people actually like, which makes no sense. But social engagements are doable and easy to do... I just don't like the shit. My wife is ENFJ I think... so you can probably, no you know your shit, you know I deal with major conflicts of being forced to do bullshit that I view as pointless.

[PatriceONeal]

It's funny how so many women are the same.

[DoctorSex]

Lol your names Patrice O'Neal... Are you aware that's your name lol

[PatriceONeal]

No I had no idea. I just rolled my face on the keyboard during profile creation and that's what I got.

[serious]

ISTJ- A

[DoctorSex]

How accurate did you find the results?

Kind regards,

[serious]

@DoctorSex

At least 80% they are accurate.

[DoctorSex]

So tell me Mr serious seeing as you're a ISTJ personality type and I can be quite direct with you compared to more delicate souls..

Is there ever an appropriate time to stray from the book?

[serious]

@DoctorSex

Stray from the book?

You mean whether I go away from my method of decision making? my book?

[DoctorSex]

Oh wait... That's interesting,

So you differentiate between the importance of following the societal rule book, from your own personal one?

So then firstly, so I understand you, Which one takes chief precedent in your decision making... in let's say, a public setting?

[serious]

@DoctorSex

1. "So you differentiate between the importance of following the societal rule book, from your own personal one?"

Societal rule book?

I never care about traditions, norms set by the society nor their rule book. The only rule book I care about is my own. That being said, the answer to your question is YES. Of course I can differential very well between a societal rule book and my own..

All my decisions that I take are based on my logic, rational and my thinking. Hence my rule book. The decision once taken will not be reversed.

I never care about the society or what people will think. I never care about being liked by others, I know not many people will like me but that is totally fine. I am fully aware of the consequences but I will always be who I am.

[serious]

2. "So then firstly, so I understand you, Which one takes chief precedent in your decision making... in let's say, a public setting?"

In a public setting or even otherwise, I follow my rule book only. That is always the precedent.

[DoctorSex]

@serious in all honesty, you come across to me as a man who potentially is a genius. I want to get that out there firstly. Because if takes tremendous personal strength to set sail and keep moving in a direction, regardless of what winds meet you out at sea.

However so much of life, of what I hear, is about the journey, not so much the destination. And many successful people will tell you that where they end up is scarcely the destination they planned for.

Here's a strange question and feel free to ignore but I think its a quirky question.
1) is there a metaphor you could use, to help us understand how you deploy your personal book in decision making.

And part two of that question would be

2) how do you rectify when you make a wrong turn? without destroying yourself or your book completely? Lol

[serious]

@DoctorSex

Thanks for understanding.

[serious]

@DoctorSex

1. "1) is there a metaphor you could use, to help us understand how you deploy your personal book in decision making.

Metaphor? I can give an example though.

It is bit hard to explain but I will try.

[DoctorSex]

Take your time, in happy to wait.

Equally if you forget I'm sure it would be because you haven't the time or the question I posed didn't leave you with a practical way to answer.
Either way, thank you and I'll be here.

Kind regards,

[BungusHighFivePizza]

ESTJA

[DoctorSex]

You're an executive guy, :-D cool!
So here's a simple question seeing as it's one of your strengths...

What's the key to good organization?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

to crush ur enemies
see dem driven b4 u
and 2 hear the lamentations of da women

[DoctorSex]

Mmmm, the only problem is..
I'm short of a couple hundred dothraki,
Any clue where I can purchase some?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

might makes right
grow stronger

[BungusHighFivePizza]

im talking in simplistic terms. but also if soldiers are unruly, the fault lies with the commander

[BungusHighFivePizza]

this is complex subject. i need more specific question. but people different from me overestimate the value of free will. u dont give free will to ur followers. u mold it until their will is in tune with ur own. that is how u accomplish a big goal. u mold other human beings 2 ur will

[DoctorSex]

That was all beautifully written.

It's clear you've read The Art Of War by some of your references. Allow me to be more specific,
You mentioned getting a new leader or general if the soldiers aren't executing correctly, that's not always easy although sometimes it may be. Generals are few for a reason..
What would you say are the best traits that make a good general in being able to mold soldiers correctly.

Kind regards,

[BungusHighFivePizza]

im limited by my outlook. the feeler types might do better in some cases. they can relate better to their followers. i appeal so much to relative logic in a universe where people feel their way through it.

i remember the first time that i killed someone and i watched so many war films before and i thought i was supposed to feel sumthing so strong. like its supposed to traumatize me. but i felt nothing. i was just following my orders

i dont know what the best trait is to mold people to ur goals. i just know a strategy, not the strategy

[BungusHighFivePizza]

what I do know is that leaders can't be so soft. we can't shield followers from the harsh realities that much. history errs on the side of harsher and more demanding leaders in determining success. the softest kinds neither accomplish their objectives nor even attempt to follow their orders. they assassinate the soft king or emperor or whatever it is. all i know so far for sure is that we can't be too soft

[DoctorSex]

@bungushighfivepizza maybe the universe is a feelings orientated thing?

I mean, people are in the universe after all and a product of it. So could we not deduce that feelings are either totally random.. in that case, the universe is a random thing lol
Or feelings are a highly logical affair, dipped in a pot of complexity.. lol I honestly don't know.

What I do now Is that you've seen a fair bit in the short life, it sounds like you are/ were a soldier, whatever that word means.. you've seen death up close and by the sounds of it, not so personal.

So maybe we can follow in that fashion and separate the event from any personal feelings that may carry across, and you can help teach us maybe a useful strategy that you've learnt in helping mold people? We can use it in other settings like education..
And maybe that's really what I'm looking for.

Kind regards,

[BungusHighFivePizza]

maybe i dont know what im doing
i just pretend like i do because that makes everyone feel better

[BungusHighFivePizza]

u want answers on how to organize and lead and ur appealing at best to a person who only knows what little they accomplished in doing that. u won't find wisdom from my personality. ull only find my personality

[DoctorSex]

@bungushighfivepizza

I can respect a man who's honest. Youve represented yourself and your personality type well, I do hope you seek some form of therapy for the things you've seen and the experiences you've gone through. I would never go as far as to say you're a stubborn person... But your personality type can suffer from this lol
You are a good man regardless of what anyone says. To me anyway.

Thank you,

[BungusHighFivePizza]

high five!

[bakajana]

I'm INFP^^

[DoctorSex]

A mediator! Super cool!
Share with us a short story, parable of quote that helps soothe your soul?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[DoctorSex]

Have you eaten yet?

[kataang]

INFP

[DoctorSex]

We have a mediator in the house! Whoop whoop!
(My apologies lol)
I think they need you more in the comments section ok YouTube than here, but I'm definitely happy to see you... A penny for your thoughts though?
Could you share a story that has proven helpful to you when dealing with hot and bothered people!
It can be literally or your favourite metaphoric story?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[kataang]

Well, as the “mediator”, dealing with a hot-headed person is like touching fire with your bare hand, either you touch it quick or don’t touch it at all. But there’s another option, putting out the fire. Find out what’s causing that fire. Let’s say someone lost their necklace, they’re upset because of it. That’s causing the fire. To put out that fire, help them look for it. Even if you don’t find it, that person will lighten up and calm down.

[DoctorSex]

That's a remarkably simple but deeply intelligent take, thank you.
Such a young age but very well formed. Good job.
How though, would you mitigate against being manipulated?
For example, "I'm extremely frustrated. I haven't found an orgasm in awhile", crude I understand but maybe you understand where I'm going in regards to a helpful spirit?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[kataang]

It sounds selfish but put your feelings first and don’t keep your feelings balled up inside. Most people who get manipulated don’t prioritize the way they feel. If you don’t care about how you feel and the manipulator doesn’t care how you feel either, you self destruct. Opening up is very important as well. Your feelings should not be balled up inside. If you happen to open up and your feelings are used against you, ditch the manipulator.

[DoctorSex]

Thank you for your concise wisdom at such a young age. You're clearly someone who's been through the fire and has risen beautifully from the ashes.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Bluethinker456]

ISTP

[DoctorSex]

How accurate did you find the results?

Kind regards,

[EnglishEuropean]

INFJ or something. I know it starts with IN..

[EnglishEuropean]

No, INTP! What was I thinking. It's all subjective bs anyway.

[EnglishEuropean]

Additional information: I identify quite strongly with the fictional character Sheldon Cooper, who is also considered INTP.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

ENFP. Hell yeah.

[DoctorSex]

Sweet mother of God,
I've been blessed with two diplomat classes responding to my post in the last 3 hours.

Wise man, because you are at Yoda status, riddle me this...
What is the purpose of human life?

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[TwoToTooTutu2]

The purpose of human life is to make me more chocolate.

[DoctorSex]

I'll get right on it...

[QuietRunner]

ISTJ

[DoctorSex]

That's pretty cool, then in that case I can ask you a similar question because I know I can be direct with you, where as with others I'd have to soft shoe.

Is there ever a right time to stray from the book?

[QuietRunner]

If by book you mean The Art of War

never ever stray from it

[DoctorSex]

You come across to me as the type of person that would be a great partner for a woman. When you commit you seem to commit.

What do you do though, when your book becomes outdated?
How do you protect yourself from being a distributor of bad advice? 🤔

Kind regards z

[pink-jilly]

ISTP

[DoctorSex]

How accurate do you find the results?

Kind regards,