Guy wants a sex holiday?

[Anonymous]

We met 2 weeks ago and started texting. We had sex few times as well when he would come over to my house. He proposed going to a one week getaway together and we went. We had plenty of sex, fun and it was great.
However, after the holiday, he started coming less on whatsapp and when I asked him to be in a relationship , he said he's not ready to be in one and started leaving me on read.

Now he ghosted me completely

Why did he do this and why go on holiday with me if he didn't want anything?

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Sighhh... 13th... No... 17th question with same topic tonight...

He isn't interested or just wanna be friends with benefits, okay? Leave us alone for a change, give us some time! What's wrong with you all? Why the assumptions?

We, the mankind (most of us...) would take this into a process of thinking (if we are serious and sure about it and whatnot!) if we did something like this.

SO PLEAAAAASE GIVE US OUR SPACE FOR A CHANGE LADIES, WOULD YOU PLEASE?

[Asker]

If he isn't interested then why go on a holiday with me?

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Oh my God! Oh for crying out loud! I swear i feel like i am talking to some brainless people here sometimes!

READ THIS AGAIN PLEASE:

We, the mankind (most of us...) would take this into a process of thinking (if we are serious and sure about it and whatnot!) if we did something like this.

[Asker]

So is he serious?

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

YES YOU DUMMY!

[Asker]

Then why did he ghost me you idiot?

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Please just leave me alone. 🙄😡

[alopolo]

this may sound mean but it's possible that he is not that in to you and he just wanted to use you for sex. this is why women should not put out on first few dates unless it is a really romantic situation ans you are sure pf his serious intentions 100%. get some commitment before sex, that is if you want a serious relationship.

[Anonymous]

There's a possibility he was already with someone... why else would he meet you online and have a "sex holiday" away from where he lives...

[Asker]

No we met at a bar