Guy wants lots of sex?

[Dominqueslutttt]

I didn't "give it up" to him for casuals like casual sex or hook ups. He has said multiple times that he likes a challenge and hasn't backed out from not maintaining constant contact with me.

So he sees me as a challenge? What are the odds that he's actually interested in me now or simply as a challenge?

[Lionman95]

I think the chance that he´s actually interested is very low if he said that he´s mainly interested in sex. Because that means he´s not looking to commit he just wants pleasure.

[Dominqueslutttt]

But he's already having sex with other women zo why me?

[Lionman95]

Maybe because he likes the variety of it. I don´t know.

[slatyb]

What do you want? How do you feel when you are with him?

[Greta_854]

nope my guy does not want more I've high sex drive and he fuck me

[Wise4myage]

The longer he sticks around and is patient, the better your odds are that he is interested in more than just sex.

[Dominqueslutttt]

Its been 2 years but he's hooking up with other girls I'm sure of it

[Wise4myage]

Then maybe its time to ditch him.

[Alex-Snow]

Hard to tell. How old is he? Does he seem like a player?

[Dominqueslutttt]

27
I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really like their interactions.

There is a girl he has been friends with since 2018 and she was his close guy friends girlfriend. But they broke up. However, he seems way too close with this girl. She keeps throwing herself at him to hug him and tries to touch his hand, hold his hand. She was even touching his hair, telling him how rough his hair looks. He's mostly just patting her on her shoulder but I have noticed her staring at him a lot while talking. She keeps introducing him to her friends, inviting him to events and constantly messaging him.
But even after this, she's still messaging him, trying to hold his hand, hugging him etc.

He also seems to have only female friends because he keeps a public calender next to my desk and each person he writes down for meet up is a girl. I also saw a picture of him on a couch with another girl and their legs very touching each other.

I find it very uncomfortable that he seems to encourage these women to touch him and seemingly has no boundaries with women whatsoever.

However, with me, he is different. Initially, he would hug but I declined to have casual sex and he stopped hugging or touching me. He became sulky and passive aggressive with me. He acts reserved and stoic with me whereas with other women he is laughing, talking etc.

I dont know if I should pursue this guy or he's just a player who is insecure about his short frame (5.5) and needs to surround himself with women to feel better about himself. What should I do in this case since the guy seems like he has no boundaries with women?

He also said that he's distant in relationships and detached even though when I propose to cut all communication with him, he protested and had a meltdown that we couldn't stop talking.

[Alex-Snow]

He obviously just wants sex and not much more. If all you want is sex than go for it but if you want more out of the relationship then I would avoid him.

[Dominqueslutttt]

It's been 2 years and he won't let go and even ehen I cut him off, he wouldn't agree to stop talking

[Alex-Snow]

Dump his ass and block him

[Dominqueslutttt]

You think he likes me?

[Alex-Snow]

No he is just a horny guy who wants sex

[Dominqueslutttt]

But he's getting sex from lather women so why me?

[Alex-Snow]

Then you should get some sex form someone you want to have it with. When was the last time u had sex?

[Dominqueslutttt]

No I mean why is he still after me when he's getting sex from other women?

[Alex-Snow]

Some guys like the hunt so to speak

[Jazzy54]

Who’s the guy to you?