There's this guy I've been working with for about 6months and I've developed a crush on him and I know he's attracted to me (at least sexually) but he has had a lot of blockages because of the fact we are co-workers, and we have a slight age difference (he prefers older girls and I'm 4y younger than him).
Also, he's kinda implied it's also because he thinks one of us might get hurt or too attached (I think he thinks I'll get too attached, but I know I won't but it's difficult to try and convince someone of that).
One night after work I texted him asking what he was up to (to then ask him to come over) and he opened my text 24h later so that he didn't have to reply as it wasn't a thing anymore (like, it's in the past, so it's pointless to reply now).
I've confronted him saying that he doesn't own up to all the sexting he's doing, and he says that it's not about owning up and not having the balls, but that he overthinks the situation and doesn't know if it's a great idea (all the points above).
I've almost broken through to him twice, but still not entirely.
I don't want to date him, I don't want to fall in love, or 'be in a flirt' with him. I honestly just want to have sex with him, even just once, the tension built up so much, and I'm too curious about him in bed. I don't care if I seem desperate or if I'm being played (he is a truly truly nice guy so it's not as if it's just a random douche bag that destroys my ego).
Should I just try texting again asking to hang out tonight? (it's 9pm here) as I said, I'm desperate, and I don't care if he knows, I just want to do it with him, but at the same time I'm asking here cause maybe asking the for 2nd time is the worst possible idea ever. So please what should I do?
