Girls, if you could read a guys mind and saw that he was imagining what it would be like making love to you, what would you think, how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

[AmandaYVR]

Unfortunately for all men, this is either positive or negative. And it's all based on her feelings towards him.

I've seen qs on here asking if a guy masturbated about a girl, did he ever tell her. Most say no, but some told the girl (because they had a feeling she might like it), and in some of those cases, the girl said ok then, let's make it happen! This must be every guy's fantasy come true.

But in the meantime, it'll probably offend most women/girls and he'd get labelled a creep.

I worked with someone, and we used to check each other out regularly. It went on for months, and eventually we got together. He asked me out for dinner. We ended up being in a relationship for three years. But what was really fun was in the beginning, when we told each other what we were thinking, in those early days, before either of us acted on anything. We were undressing each other with our eyes. In some ways, it was subtle. In other ways, not so subtle I guess. It was a long time ago so I don't remember exactly what he said to me, when we were together, but I remember laughing and smiling and thinking damn, this is so much fun. After situations like that, you learn to read signals, expressions, all the non-verbal cues. The next time you see a similar look, you have more of an idea of what's going on... and yeah, it can be very hot.

[SueShe]

If that would be the case, then I would take my distance with that pervert as quickly as possible.

I do believe that there are a very large number of guys that have nothing better to do in life than to objectify and sexualize women that they don't know just because they are introvert and to shy to get themselves a girlfriend.

I would certainly not want to be friends with such a person because I would have to fear for my security and health. One never knows when those people cross the boundary and attempt to rape or coerce a girl to do what she does not want to do.

It is a good thing that I don't have this capability because I am sure that I would have to make use of my mace quite a few times. I do not tolerate nonsense and that type of behavior is indeed nonsense in addition to be demeaning towards the victims.

[PrettyPriya]

That would all depend on who the guy was. If it was my fiancé, I'd probably be thinking all those warm, fuzzy feelings that I do when I think about how much I love him. We have a healthy intimate life but not one that rules our lives. So, most of the time when I think about being intimate, it is more emotional thoughts than about the physical aspect.

Now, if it was a guy that I was not dating, engaged or married to or some complete stranger, I would be freaked out that he was sexualizing me and fantasizing about having sex with me.

Thank goodness I do not have this ability because I am sure this happens more than I would like to know about it. That is the problem with a lot of guys. They may not even know me but have no problems sexualizing or fantasizing about me or other women.

[Anonymous]

I don't want to know that.