Girls, How would you feel if?

[Anonymous]

How would you feel if you lived with your sister and her boyfriend and you had a hint that he was attracted to you but he never mentioned it or made any moves or made it obvious? Also to find out that he has been in your room when he's home alone, sniffing your underwear? (Clothes situated differently than when u left). His way of dealing with him self liking you without physically or verbally including you. Honest opinions?

[SueShe]

I would feel raped. Not physically raped but the fact alone that this pervert did touch my intimacy through my underwear would be enough for me to do whatever was in my powers to ensure that he is no longer my sister's boyfriend.

I would do everything that needs to be done to have him removed by every possible legal means from the premises where my sister and I live. I would make sure that he is marked for life in the dating scene and that he does not find a girlfriend anymore in the next 20 years because his reputation is totally compromised.

I do not tolerate that people, regardless of gender, snoop and profane what touches my intimate zone. For me, the knowledge that a man did go through my clothing is enough to dispose of them. I would make sure that he is liable to settle financially a brand new wardrobe.

[dustybiker]

He is your sisters boyfriend. Have respect. And buy a lock to your room.

[WhitneySnow]

I would be super uncomfortable

[Asker]

Why?

[WhitneySnow]

Seriously?

[Asker]

Explain

[WhitneySnow]

Nvm.

[WhitneySnow]

The underwear sniffing

[Asker]

Incapable of answering a simple question. Can't hold a conversation.

[Asker]

Ok, say for instance he wasn't doing that but he was attracted to you. how do you feel now?

[WhitneySnow]

A little less uncomfortable but I could deal with it unless he actually tried hitting on me

[Asker]

Can you honestly say that you would never find your self having the same thoughts as him?

[WhitneySnow]

I would never have those thoughts about my sister’s boyfriend

[Asker]

We're human, you can't say never. Feelings and mindsets change everyday. Not due to ill intention but due to temptation and weak moments.

[WhitneySnow]

I cannot imagine a situation where I would be into my sister’s boyfriend. That’s just weird.

[Asker]

Saw him naked after a shower by some chance? You would definitely sexualize him in that moment. Its human nature.

[WhitneySnow]

No I wouldn’t!

[Asker]

I can only Half way believe you.

[WhitneySnow]

Fine

[Asker]

Seeing his penis would do nothing for you, at all?

[WhitneySnow]

No. Just seeing a random naked guy doesn’t do anything for me, let alone my sister’s boyfriend.

And we probably shouldn’t be talking about this. I gtg anyway. Bye!

[Asker]

Your denial has gotten the best of you. Have a good day.

[Anonymous]

Tell your sister, if you haven’t already.

[Asker]

What would be your hopes once you tell her?

[Opinion Owner]

I would hope that she leaves him, because not only is it wrong for him to express interest in my sibling, but if he’s gay and not into women at all then what’s the point?

[Asker]

Where do you get gay from? The scenario is that a guy who has a girlfriend is attracted to her sister. Also what if it's just a phase?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh man, I don't know how I read that as if you were the sibling and he was doing this towards you lol🤦🏾‍♀️. Still, I’d hope she breaks up with him because it’s not ok to creep on my sister. If it’s a phase, I don’t even care, it should’ve never gotten that far in the first place. I couldn’t keep him around knowing he’s into her or worrying that he still is but is keeping his feelings under wraps.

[Asker]

Ok well remember that she lives with them. Maybe her constant individual female presence is stirring something up in him that he can't control. If your uncomfortable would you move out of their place?

[Opinion Owner]

No, he has to go. Why would I kick out my own flesh and blood to keep a man around who desires her? If her constant presence is causing him to become attracted to her then that’s HIS problem, I’m not punishing my sister by kicking her out. I honestly can’t stand women like that, who choose a man over their family, children, etc, when he is the one who’s done wrong.

[Asker]

I don't think you get the scenario. In this situation you are the sister that's living with her sister and her boyfriend. You are the person being liked by your sisters boyfriend so you would be the one making the decision to stay or leave. If him liking you makes you uncomfortable would you leave and find new living arrangements.

[Opinion Owner]

Then I would tell my sister and hopes she kicks him out. Having a sister personally I know she would, but if I were in a position to where she wouldn’t leave him then yeah, I would move out. Depending on finances I may not be able to do it immediately but until then I’d get a lock for my door so that he could come in when I’m away, and have zero interaction with him.

[Asker]

What if you saw some old texts between your ex and your sister... is it fair game for you to entertain her new man?

[Opinion Owner]

Still no. For one, I’m not a malicious person to seek revenge by hurting my loved ones. I most certainly would not entertain a man who doing all that weird stuff towards me in the first place, let alone to harm my sister.