Why do most girls act like only their feelings and emotions matter in a relationship?

[Dnc_21]

What I mean is that they act like they're the only ones who get hurt and suffer and we guys should always deal with their bs, while we guys aren't supposed to have any problems or get hurt emotionally somehow?

[Guy13]

Because God wired them that way. So, everything is greater or worse for them. Guys were more wired for physical things. Very few are highly emotional. I can brush off lots of “emotional junk” because of it 😉

[Dnc_21]

But there comes point when you break... and you just can't put up with bs anymore

[Guy13]

No doubt. Maybe leave the house go to soccer match? Put phone on silent. Disconnect for a week until she actually stops and asks what is wrong? Things I have done…

[Dnc_21]

Yup I know that works, sometimes they like being ignored or treated like crap... it's a fact... anyway I'm not really in a relationship now... was just wondering because it's been a common thing with most girls I've been with...

[Guy13]

Genetics. 🧬

[Anonymous]

If your partner doesn’t think that your feelings matter, they aren’t a good partner to begin with. This applies to both guys and girls. Just move on and find someone who will respect you.

[Dnc_21]

Not exactly in a relationship, But I guess that's the right thing to do.

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean?

[Dnc_21]

I'm just talking about my past experiences with some girls

[Blackcosmo]

That's because they only care about themselves. You're better off without them.

[Dnc_21]

Yeah I guess so

[Radiate143]

Because you guys shut down and express nothing so we think you don't care.

[jahaims]

Most people are selfish and immature

[Dnc_21]

Yeah I guess so.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like they are very self centered.

[Dnc_21]

Exactly

[Anonmehahaha]

You have to say when something is bothering you

[Dnc_21]

Even when I do... it's like they don't really care... plus sometimes I notice when something is wrong and put some effort into improving things but can't say the same for them...

[Anonmehahaha]

:( I've a guy best friend and he shares we share everything. You shoud find a girl with whom you ca talk about anything. Tho yes most girls are airy

[Dnc_21]

I've been with one girl who was very understanding... but the rest are all just ugh

[Anonmehahaha]

Girl friends you need girl friends

[Dnc_21]

Female friends you mean?

[Anonmehahaha]

Yesss

[Dnc_21]

I don't know... i don't do female friends thingy

[Anonmehahaha]

Me neither and I'm a girl lmao I only have guy friends, easy to talk to. Tho my guy best friends has a lot of questionable girl friends but it is what it is. You should at least have 2 who you casually talk to and potentially open up to one on a deeper level.

[Dnc_21]

I don't think it's easy to find a trustworthy female friend or a trustworthy female in general for that matter...

[Anonmehahaha]

I found mine. You will find yours too

[Dnc_21]

Not sure about that

[Anonmehahaha]

You willl

[Dnc_21]

What makes you so sure?

[Anonmehahaha]

Cause you will meet your girl best friend before you get a girlfriend like girlfriend girlfriend

[Dnc_21]

I already had few girlfriends before getting any female friends

[Anonmehahaha]

Honey when I say girl friends i mean female friends.

[Dnc_21]

I've only had two like 10-12 years ago then we stopped talking

[Anonmehahaha]

You'll find new ones

[Dnc_21]

Is it really that important though? I have make best friends

[Dnc_21]

Male*

[Anonmehahaha]

Mm not really as in it could be an issue when you find a girlfriend later on. As I she would be jealous. But at the same time if you want to talk about girl trouble you have your female friend

[Dnc_21]

Yeah the thing is every girl I've dated never wants me to talk to other females... Even as friends... They're always jealous

[Anonmehahaha]

Yeah my guy best friend when he broke up with his ex she screamed at him about me. She was jealous. Tho I'd be jealous too if I was in her place

[Dnc_21]

So yeah it isn't really a good idea...

[Anonmehahaha]

You seem like a nice guy tho lmao Maybe you need to become a bad boy and playboy

[Dnc_21]

Yeah I've always thought about that, I've been loyal in relationships even though a lot of other chicks hit on me..

[Anonmehahaha]

Are in a relationship now? If not you can fuck around

[Dnc_21]

I'm kind of in a relationship... been seeing this girl but I'm not sure about her anymore

[Anonmehahaha]

Do tell. Share what's bothering you

[Dnc_21]

I don't trust her, and I feed like she's hiding things from me... but she denied it when I told her that

[Dnc_21]

Feel*