Guys, He asked me if I liked his friend? but he knows I like him?

[Anonymous]

So me and the guy (Ben) i like were at a party with his friend John. It's the first time i've met John properly.

Ben know that i like him etc and we've been meeting up as friends to get to know each other, as he said it takes a while for him to know if he's interested in someone.

While at this party, John is dancing with some guys and i'm curious whether he may be gay.

So i say to Ben, is John Gay?

Ben says "why?" in a very normal tone.

Then Ben's mood changes into full happy smiling vibe and wiggles his eyebrows and says "oooh do you like him? eh eh?"

And im like "no no no" and Ben says okay then we both start chatting to some friends.

What does this mean?

[DoctorSex]

You're dealing with a VERY intelligent man, be very careful here... He is testing you.
Usually when a woman is watching and the precedes to talk about the guy, there's some level of emotion attached to it.
He was checking.
This reminds me of a comedian called Patrice O'Neal who said, "if I can get your woman's attention and make her angry, trust me I can f***(have relations) with her".
As a lady seeking a masculine intelligent man, be very careful at all times! Especially with where you place your attention.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Guy13]

No idea…it could mean that he’s not attracted to John either 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[spartan55]

How do you know Ben is aware of your feelings?

[Asker]

We had a conversation a few months back where I told him I liked him. And he opened up about how he’s only ever had one relationship which went badly so he’s being more cautious this time in really getting to know the person first

[Avicenna]

He was just teasing you

[Asker]

Would he tease even if he knows I like him though? Or was it just overcompensating?

[Avicenna]

Absolutely he would if he knew that. And he would do it to see what your reaction is

[EarthRealm]

It means Ben wants to Fuck you.