What do I do if I feel insecure at my job and fear for my job security because I have no personality?

[Genuinsesexdoll]

Its a sales job with a small team. My boss can talk an ear off. I'm a nice person and good listener but i have social anxiety and around some people it gets worse. Its funny cuz during the interview i felt the exact opposite. I think i natrally have a distinct internal fear for my bosses. So like once he became my actual boss maybe my internal brain like shut down and is extremely fearful of him and messin up in front of him like saying the wrong thing. Ironically this just makes me seem awkward as hell and harder to get along with cause im so quiet and awkward with him mostly. I feel so insecure like im a disappointment to him now. I can't crack witty jokes. Im the girl who giggles at EVERYTHING. But im not some COOL PERSON like my boss whom everything he says is like some super charming witty sarcasticly cool comment. Not in a mean way by the way he's just like one of those george clooney types LoL

[OneQuestionOnly0]

I was in a very similar position, and I was lucky enough to get the opportunity to study EQ (Emotional intelligence).

Even some Googling and reading up on it may be helpful, if you can figure out where you stand, you can see where you need to focus. Self awareness is the most important aspect. You need to be self aware of the value you add to your team. Reach out if you need some direction with it.

[Genuinsesexdoll]

You think i add EQ value?

[OneQuestionOnly0]

Not necessarily, but you should explore EQ to be able to realise the value that you do add

[Genuinsesexdoll]

Why would i explore somwthing i dont bring?