My friends with benefits friend zoned me and is suddenly pursing me more now I’m dating other men. Why?

[Anonymous]

[spartan55]

Because other guys are dipping into his free 🥧 pie... DUH

[Asker]

i honestly was just dating someone else not hooking up but I guess from a guys point of view if he has slept with me he assumes that’s what I’m doing with the others tooo. What’s the best way to proceed from here? I’m thinking cut the friends with benefits off, because he knows I wanted a relationship with him, but he doesn’t want that but when I date other guys he’s like I’m ur American boyfriend when I’m in ur city ur mine. Like wtf.

[spartan55]

You should just laugh at him when he says ridiculous stuff like that. Look, he's never going to want a relationship with you. He doesn't respect you enough.

[Asker]

True but I won’t take it personal because that’s just who he is I’m not the one for him and I definitely won’t be letting him stand in the way of me finding someone that actually wants to build a relationship and being loyal to them

[spartan55]

Sounds like he is a waste of your time then.