No like seriously I never met a guy that legit wanted a relationship with me they always just wanted to be fuck buddies or friends with benefits & it's so annoying cuz I feel like i have so much more to offer smh. Why do they only want sex from me? I'm 21 pretty, nice, caring, genuine, generous the list goes on.. so why do guys only wanna settle for a friends with benefits relationship with me? Am I not good enough for a relationship?
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Because guys generally don't want relationships, just sex. You probably don't want to hear that but it's the truth. We get horny but would rather not put forth the time and effort for a relationship when we can avoid it simply because we loathe commitment. In 2017 this should be common knowledge: women generally want relationships, guys generally want sex and skip the relationship if they can or at the very least the sex gets priority compared to women. Friends with benefits is the most we want usually, and most of the time even that has less emphasis on the friends and more emphasis on the benefits. And it has nothing to do with you in particular. It would probably be the same even if you had the mind of both Mother Theresa and Einstein with the body a swimsuit model or any other woman. Odds are if you find a guy seemingly wanting a relationship be cautious, he most likely is just telling you what you want to hear to get in your pants.0