Why do guys always lie to me about wanting a relationship when really they just want a friends with benefits?

Anonymous
I have been single for 5 years and when I was in a relationship he cheated on me several times for the past 5 years I've met a few guys that lied to me and told me they wanted to work on a relationship when really they just wanted convenient sex the most recent man that told me this is still telling me he wants to work on a relationship but it's been Over a year now I have done a lot for him throughout the year helped him financially when he lot his job put food in his house cooked for him when he came to my house I always comfort him and listen to his problems and a lot more yet we are still not togetherDo these guys think im not attractive enough? and in the future How can I tell if a guy is jusr using me? I'm going celibate and taking a break from dating right now
Why do guys always lie to me about wanting a relationship when really they just want a friends with benefits?
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