Why do guys always lie to me about wanting a relationship when really they just want a friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

I have been single for 5 years and when I was in a relationship he cheated on me several times for the past 5 years I've met a few guys that lied to me and told me they wanted to work on a relationship when really they just wanted convenient sex the most recent man that told me this is still telling me he wants to work on a relationship but it's been Over a year now I have done a lot for him throughout the year helped him financially when he lot his job put food in his house cooked for him when he came to my house I always comfort him and listen to his problems and a lot more yet we are still not togetherDo these guys think im not attractive enough? and in the future How can I tell if a guy is jusr using me? I'm going celibate and taking a break from dating right now

[devilish-cutie]

its not you, its them. I've noticed in gay comunity many are promiscueted but not all like ysf! In the future for any sign of this kind of behavior you tolerated just dont! and leave.
There are ones worth dating but may not be easy to find... its the same for everyone unless you are lucky