Guys, would you ask a younger lady (about 5- 10 years younger) who you're romantically interested in to borrow money and why?

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I think not romantic but I know everything doesn't have to be romantic, because that is senseless and surely older guys have experiences from before... but I think a guy has to be realllly comfortable and not feel shame around her to do this. ... or maybe not?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I would never ask a girl whether she's younger or even older to borrow money I think that's wrong and if I had a friend that was a girl that was going to loan some guy that money I would tell her not to because the odds of you getting it back is zero to have enough credit built up where you can go get it a lone himself

ChiTown33 · Accepted Answer

I couldn't imagine a scenario where I'd have to ask for money. I've worked very hard some I'm never in that position ever again. Did you mean like borrow 5 bucks because he doesn't have "cash" on hand? Or did you mean really borrow money?

Anonymous · Answer

In this scenario I'm going to assume I'm older than now. As I couldn't answer otherwise.

But if I was interested no, as well I doubt I'd be comfortable enough to talk to them anyway.

But also if I was interested in them I wouldn't want to ask that as it's not appropriate. I'd dislike asking anyone if I could borrow money. But if I had to I'd only be able to ask for a small amount from those I'm very very close to. And would rule them out.

And as much as the openness and vulnerability I guess some may like I doubt asking to borrow money is something that wouldn't impact the chance for it to occur.

I hope I've made sense here.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

If i was really in need and no other choice and if i knew you were kind enough and if trusted you that you would not harm my dignity and if i new you would be able to give me that maybe yes if we had that dynamic then sure as any other friend i would ask you.

NNWSSEnew · Answer

Trust has to be there before I even ask a person one has to be comfortable when they apart with something they need also one has to know there gettiing it back with confidenc us older men does have a problem well when I ask any younger woman to help me out if I feel romantic or something like that towards them l should be able to help them instead of me asking them to help me it's not showing any security for them for anything

Wubs3000 · Answer

4 year olds don't have any money and I don't know what I would do with it seeing as I would be in jail by then

MrOracle · Answer

I don't ask other people for money. I go earn it. I have savings for emergencies. If I need more, I work more. I can't imagine a scenario where I'm asking a young woman to borrow money.

Staximus · Answer

Fuck no, that's bum shit. Only manipulative piece of shit bums ask girls for money, especially if it's not their wife

dailyoctopus94 · Answer

Asking for money makes a relationship immediately transactional.  Using this to initiate a relationship, or worse "as a test," isn't something I'd ever do.

HighValue · Answer

No. I won't borrow money from anyone except my parents, and that hasn't happened in many years. I refuse to borrow anything from friends, etc. and I refuse to lend out money too.

DirkCoenen · Answer

If I can't support her finicially, let alone myself, then I am not ready to marry her and I should think twice about entering the dating scene.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I’ve never really needed to borrow money. I would never borrow from a friend or family member, least of all someone i’m trying to date.

zagor · Answer

Are you talking $20 because he forgot his wallet or $5,000?

lightbulb27 · Answer

never have, that makes no sense whatsoever. for what purpose?

NathanDavis · Answer

if I really need money, I sell some stuff... I don't borrow

Anonymous · Answer

I have an ex girlfriend who was 8 years younger than me that offered me money in a tight spot years ago. I declined out of pridebut it really showed a lot about her. It really showed she cared for and loved me.

SiberFox · Answer

Yeah, maybe to see how she is with money, but I'd do something special like ask her for x amount and add 2x to that to go on a trip or some other surprise. Really just to get an idea of what she'll think when I ask, should it ever be needed.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Sure but given I only borrow money in the objective to gain more it's a good investment on their part as well as being a test

Twalli · Answer

The was a Catfish episode where a guy asked a girl he was interested in for money. $150. She sent it to him and when he had the opportunity, he returned it.

Anonymous · Answer

No, there would never be a need to because I'm rich through the Kingdom of God and generosity.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd never ask a romantic interest for money. And it would be a "red flag" if someone where to ask me.

Yeetboi__ · Answer

You're there for the money in the first place come on now! You ladies can't make a post IN CODE and not expect someone to debunk this crap. WE ARE NOT WALKING ATM's. WITHOUT MEN y'all WILL DIE!

Triggered... Give me my disagrees

loveslongnails · Answer

I wouldn't ask ANYONE I know to borrow money, except a parent.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Are we atarting again with the unfair gender roles here? stop that: 'guys are "supposed" to earn more and its embarrassing if the girl earns more' We dont live in the 50s anymore...

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Some people have 0 shame and will ask anyone and everyone for money.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Absolutely not! I would never ask to borrow money from anyone! I handle my own business!

Adam1978 · Answer

No I would never ask a person I date for money ever. If I am in a economic jam I wouldn't be dating.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Maybe a buck or two while we’re at a vending machine or something. But not an actual loan

shortster · Answer

Nope. Asking for money from a romantic partner is a good way to destroy the relationship.

Jerre · Answer

I have sufficient money and don’t need to borrow.

Anonymous · Answer

no not a chance i would never borrow money from the woman i love

MTC29 · Answer

Hell no. I'm not looking for a loan.

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