IIs the reason men never want to date me because they see my soul piercing eyes like pincess diana and michael Jackson?

[Anonymous]

I have strooong eyes like the afghan girl, princess diana and michael jackson.

Im a soft gentle woman but im no dunce.

When you plunge the depths like i do... you're bound to have seen some shit and be effected. And i also have a natre to dissect the heck out everything there is to be dissected until its a dead lifeless stump. Then i dig it up and go underground and make a cave. O. o

[lightbulb27]

so you are highly sensitive and analytical.

I'd suggest finding your true heart and strength. to me that requires finding Christ inside you, developing your sense of self worth and a world view that takes your fear away and puts love, empathy, and compassion in place, which will be your strong suites.

Then you can respond better to guys, as you learn how to date and relate to them.

The Afghan woman is a fine example of how screwed up that culture is. It is not based upon love, but upon the honor of the man... be damned the woman. It is a slave culture... for they are slaves of their god in their heart... and there are reasons for that I won't get into.

Michael Jackson was in fear of his father... seeking his approval and not getting it, don't know if he ever got past that.

Diana I don't know.

good luck to you. For sure what you are saying in your presence speaks volumes. There can be other reasons men say no or don't ask. It's not easy dating... dating is bridging a gap between two people, it takes work to figure out. some people get it quickly and some don't.

[Ihavenofriends10]

Thank you. Thats really interesting and I would like to replace the fear with love for sure. But I havr to ask ehat you meant by Christ being inside me. i am a saved Christian and Jesus Christ is not inside me as far as I am aware?

[lightbulb27]

@Ihavenofriends10 that's a start. I mean finding your heart, true self, what gives you energy. It took me quite some time to free myself from my broken heart (childhood issues) after following Christ.
The emotional programming of the past is what controls, and some or a lot of it is lies we believed as children. Getting beyond those is freeing.

[maximumpower]

No. Men don't want to date you b/c - as evidenced by your posting - your thought processes place you squarely in "schitzo" category.

[Kf9h5be]

I dont respect you

[maximumpower]

@Kf9h5be ouch. i'm offended and will be up all night worrying about that. (that's sarcasm, by the way)
in the meantime, get a life.

[Guy13]

Surely you are not single. Raging storm behind the eyes is seductive and not threatening.

[FilmGuy93]

Lol it's probably more to do with how you treat men or make them feel. Eyes are the windows into the soul.

[Ihavenofriends10]

there's nothing funny about any of this.

[KrakenAttackin]

No, they probably don't want to date you because you either have no personality or your personality sucks. Just showing up isn't enough.

[AndrésC64]

They probably never want to date you because you're so conceited.

[chicosuave]

Can you send me some luck to me

[Asker]

Watt

[Anonymous]

I hope that’s not why

[nawtee_me]

Michael Jackson had perverted children eyes...

[Ihavenofriends10]

What? He had a perverted childs eyes?

[nawtee_me]

@Ihavenofriends10 He was charged multiple time for inappropriate behavior with kids...

[Kf9h5be]

Orly? I thought he didn't do anyting sexual