Is it a good signs that my depressed ex opens up to me about his emotions?

[Deimy]

[1GoldTwins]

No... I mean he's comfortable with you, I guess you could say that is a good thing. But he's your ex, you're supposed to go your own ways. That's not going to happen if he contacts you.

[Deimy]

We broke up because of misunderstandings and he has a really hard time now he even admitted he had trauma when I came back to my native country after my traineeship and started to date long distance

[1GoldTwins]

You should tell him to go see a psychiatrist or a therapist, you know. The Mind Doctor :)

[Deimy]

Yes I told him to see therapist because of depression but he said that he has other emotional problems not just depression

[1GoldTwins]

More the reason to go!

[Deimy]

Yes but he wrote:" I don’t wanna see a therapist cause that wouldn’t be the only reason I would need to go see one…

Yeah indeed I have a low self esteem and yes that’s also true, I try to avoid traumas until my self esteem is built up…"

[1GoldTwins]

You don't need more than one reason though...

[UniquelyBasic]

Good sign in what way? For you or him?

[Deimy]

For me to get back with him

[UniquelyBasic]

I think he needs to deal with his depression first.

[Deimy]

Yes I understand it

[Pterodon]

No. You shouldn’t be talking to an ex at all

[Deimy]

We broke up because of misunderstandings and he has a really hard time now he even admitted he had trauma when I came back to my native country after my traineeship and started to date long distance

[Pterodon]

Don’t care. Misunderstandings aren’t a good reason to break up