Why do men love me and women hate me?

[Anonymous]

I tried tinder and I set it to women obviously. I had a few matches but nothing special and I think I’m really handsome.

I then switched it to guys randomly and so many men liked me. Like 100s in a day. Wtf?

should I go gay now?

Girls don’t really use tinder like men

Go gay

Other

[roxbby]

I've heard that men tend to swipe right to almost everyone and then judge the person after they've matched. Women, on the other hand, are far more selective: if they want the guy, they match. Men swiping right tend to be a lot less meaningless based on that fact. Another thing is that I feel that Tinder is a hookup site, and more men than women engage in hookups in general. For that reason, men will be thus less selective. That's my take. Also, women don't hate you. You just need to make sure the pictures you have on your account really represent you as a person. If you have some weird, funky pictures, people will make automatic judgments of you. If you have pictures that are confident and have good lighting, you'll be seen positively. Another thing is your biography. Go for something that shows off your humor but also is more serious. Women tend to be into that. You're not going to attract every woman, though.

[Anonymous]

Nah, most people use tinder for hook-ups, and it's possible that there are more men looking for hook-ups than women on tinder. I'm surprised they are using tinder though, isn't there another one for gay men called grinder if something. I don't know because I don't do the dating app thing.

[GutsNCascaBerserking]

I think its simply because
1. Women have more choices in dating
2. Women receive dozens to hundreds of messages from Men
3. Men receive few if any messages from Women, even when attractive.
4. Women are more likely to be LGBTQ than Men, which increases the options
5. Men in the LGBTQ community will send out messages to any possible choices (just like Straight men).

[GutsNCascaBerserking]

It is far more common for women to practice a LGBTQ lifestyle, and women also tend to have more choices in the male/female dynamic.

Women also receive 100s of messages from men, and men will rarely receive messages form women.

Gay men don't have as many options, and will immediately message other men they perceive as a possible choice.

[Wade12345]

Are you that easily influenced to participate in unnatural lewd acts that you'd become a homosexual just because more men like you than women?

How stupid are you people?

[Asker]

It’s a joke you know

[sw1916]

Women on dating platforms have way more options. Gay men statistically don’t have as many opinions, so you become more valuable.

[Asker]

Not really you get so many likes and there are way more men on there

[GutsNCascaBerserking]

I think its simply because
1. Women have more choices in dating
2. Women receive dozens to hundreds of messages from Men
3. Men receive few if any messages from Women, even when attractive.
4. Women are more likely to be LGBTQ than Men, which increases the options
5. Men in the LGBTQ community will send out messages to any possible choices (just like Straight men).

[scarletssecret]

I don't know do they consider u a alpha man

[Asker]

Ew I hate that phrase. Alpha male, toxic masculinity basically

[scarletssecret]

Ok good! I mean I don’t know are you mean to women. Do u make inappropriate jokes around them or about them. Maybe ur vibes r off to them. How do u know they hate you? if you just assumed it could just be in your head and maybe they don’t hate u at all. Who knows maybe they are intimidated I don't know if ur popular could be a reason. Idkkkk

[GutsNCascaBerserking]

I think its simply because
1. Women have more choices in dating
2. Women receive dozens to hundreds of messages from Men
3. Men receive few if any messages from Women, even when attractive.
4. Women are more likely to be LGBTQ than Men, which increases the options
5. Men in the LGBTQ community will send out messages to any possible choices (just like Straight men).