When a guy says you aren’t what I expected, is that usually a good thing?

[Hawaiikai]

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We were hanging out and kept telling me I’m chill and cool and hung out for hours.

[Anonymous]

I know it's usually seen as a bad thing. But, think about it: if you're not what he expected (or vice versa), then is good that you found out because the relationship would simply not work out at some point and you both would just be wasting time. For me is a good thing.

[InnocentFreak]

Depends on the context. According to your update it’s something good.

[Jacobbbb]

It can be a bad or good thing it depends on the context

[Hawaiikai]

We were hanging out and kept telling me I’m chill and cool and hung out for hours.

[Jacobbbb]

Then it might be a good thing

[d3n0939]

Most likely he meant something bad

[Hawaiikai]

He kept saying how chill and cool I am. And he wanted to hang out again 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Intothevoid666]

I don't know hard to say

[Anonymous]

Not if you look like John Merrick. 🤣