What's the first thing?

[Anonymous]

What is the first thing that you guys notice and see in a woman you're looking to be in a relationship with?

[Anonymous]

Physical attraction is one thing, but if I'm interested in a woman for a serious relationship I'm super interested in her personality, character and attitudes, especially toward men and relationships. For me personally, I have no interest in any woman who is woke or a feminist type. That one should require no explanation. I'm attracted to nice, warm, friendly women who come from a good intact family and have a positive relationship with their fathers, because those things have a huge impact on how they view men, marriage and family themselves. I'm a family guy and want a family and a wife who wants one too and will make a good wife and mother. Those are my personal priorities. Your mileage may differ.

[Asker]

Can you describe what you mean as a woman being woke or a feminist type?

[Anonymous]

Attitude and political views. So many women have unhealthy attitudes about men these days, and that is mostly found among liberal women. I never date liberal women, mostly for that reason but other reasons too.

General personality is super important, but attitudes and political views are a strong indicator of personality issues. Stay away from liberal women and you significantly improve your chances of getting a good one. Any woman who argues that point is an instant DQ.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find guys treat me better if I wear formal and decorative clothes, when I look like I’m going to a high profile job interview, I get better treatment.

[sirderpsalot123]

If she can take a joke.

[Ronnie_Tulsa]

Attitude, teeth, skills