How to tell if a guy is done with you?

[hotpink809]

Question if a man that you've been talking to or dating over heard the conversation of you talking about him, would he still pick up your call and be rude to you or would he not answer at all?

[kmg9150]

If I heard my girl telling someone how good I was in the sack, yup definitely time to ghost a bitch... But seriously, the question is lacking detail to answer properly.

[hotpink809]

Like you saying that you were excited that he called and people were advising you not to call him right away because you may look desperate and you said that you wanted to flex mean brag about the apartment you have now because when you and the guy were talking you were homeless and someone trying to give advice on how play the game but you weren't trying to play any games you just wanted to ask about something that guy knew about

[hotpink809]

But they didn't ghost me they answered the phone and was being very rude

[kmg9150]

When people say play the game their not actually referring to playing games. Two different things. They mean the dating game, attraction, natural human behaviors, instinctual decisions based off the others actions. Its as though its needed. I literally just started to educate myself about 4 years ago or so. I see why there are a lot of failures and rejections. How we can misread behaviors. Psychology is very powerful.

In what way was he rude? What exactly did you ask him?

[qwert1234]

I won't be rude.

Depends on what's being talked about me. If it's positive, then I bask to my glory. If it's negative, I'll just ask her - why not talk to me about it and see what we can do?

We're adults ffs. lol

[OverThePlace]

Guys hate the games girls play. Him overhearing the conversation, could have made him think you were playing games, even if you weren't.

[hotpink809]

Whymat does that mean if he still picked and answered

[OverThePlace]

He was probably willing to hear you out. I say based on the fact you wrote he was rude to you when he was talking to you and the fact you also said he has responded to your text, I would probably say , it's best to let him be, give him some space and some time. He might have you blocked or maybe he doesn't but he is choosing to not respond.

[hotpink809]

But I asked him why was he being rude and he didn't tell me

[OverThePlace]

You do know why he was rude. You said it in your post and in the comments, that he overheard your conversation about playing games and playing the game. That is enough to make a lot of people talk rudely to someone. He was clearly peeved off about the conversation you were having.

[hotpink809]

It could've been that or the fact I just reached to him just for a book? After 2 months of not hearing from me. That's why I'm not sure

[OverThePlace]

Wait so this didn't just happen recently, this happened months ago? The guy might have a girlfriend or maybe he truly does believe you were playing him and he was furious you would even attempt to contact him especially, after a long time

[hotpink809]

No this happened recently but I'm saying before hand we didn't talk for 2 months

[Guy13]

Depends what was said ⁉️ 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[hotpink809]

Like you saying that you were excited that he called and people were advising you not to call him right away because you may look desperate and you said that you wanted to flex mean brag about the apartment you have now because when you and the guy were talking you were homeless and someone trying to give advice on how play the game but you weren't trying to play any games you just wanted to ask about something that guy knew about

[Guy13]

That would give me a headache and I would be “nope, going to have to think about this again.” Too much damn drama…

[hotpink809]

But why would he pick up the phone and have an attitude and say mmm hmmm the entire. Time like why answer at all?

[Guy13]

He’s giving it a chance…

[hotpink809]

So today I text and thanked him for the book that I wanted because that was one of the reasons that I called I wanted to talk about us until he was acting that way but anyway I text him today telling him I appreciate him giving me the book and no response. Am I blocked l. I was never rude to him or anything?

[hotpink809]

Or does he need time

[Guy13]

Chill out. The more freaky you act the more you are that DRAMA he overheard. Make Sense?

[hotpink809]

So don't reach out anymore unless he does?

[Guy13]

Exactly. 5 days for him

[hotpink809]

One thing and I'll stop talking about it. Is that a reason to block someone though? Judging by what I told you?

[Guy13]

It is if you are just to much and about to push me over the edge…and say something that I can’t take back. Whether it is a mature or immature act can only be analyzed individual basis.-No generalization in this case. I hope all this turns out as you wished it too 🙂

[hotpink809]

I hope so too