Don’t you think girls are big hypocrites?

[Anonymous]

I did a tinder experiment, a nice looking guy and posted him on tinder and then a really good looking guy with a chiselled body on tinder.

the first guy got very few matches and the hotter guy got too many.

I began to ask them questions. All the girls said they don’t care about the physical much but the connection. Bullshit. Women are very shallow.

Well obviously not right?

I agree they’re hypocrites

I disagree

[Anonymous]

your on tinder so prolly most of the girls are mainly there to fuck. for just sex obv looks are the main thing. and that's not bigoted. some guys your type like to call us superficial but that's litterally biology. we both want to fuck cute people. it's not bad for us girls to want hot dudes too, were litterally made to want that too

now though unlike for girls where your appeal is mainly looks right, for dudes if you got certain types of personalities like for ex kinda having that big d energy, always the center of attention, popular, type of thing if you see what i'm saying. that kinda thing can make an average looking guy hot for both sex and dating too. it's not just having a good personality, it's a certain type of good personality. guys dont really know the difference. being just nice doesn't cut it (but its necessary though, especially with her. you really can't be an ahole to her. some guys think we like that but no. we love bad boys but decent ones not super mean ones)

besides anyways whats the problem with girls preferring good looking guys over some average looking dude if given a choice (also by the way they probably didn't think the hot guy was mean or anything or necessarely less nice than the other guy too). a lot of not super hot guys have a problem with this and call girls shallow for that but they're litterally the same too. if you would rather pic a super hot girl over a plain jane, then i mean if were shallow u shallow too

[Asker]

Where I’m from a lot of girls use it to look for dates

[Asker]

I disagree

[Asker]

Like girls should just be honest they want an extremely attractive guy

[Opinion Owner]

thats the ideal but most girls won't get the super super good looking guys. you'd have to be on the same level except for just sex if you at least kinda cute. guys who are just good looking but not top top tier to cute are still pretty good and wouldn't be considered settling necessarily either. plus for real if your more average looking and you have a smoking hot body or that kinda big d type vibe going on, you'll get girls (thats not lying). but yea if your not good looking or have that kinda personality/hot body, girls won't be interested in you obviously except maybe for the less attractive ones

[Asker]

Can you explain a big d type vibe like I hear girls talk about that.
The truth is I’m pretty good looking, very tall, quiet/confident, top career and very wealthy background. But girls are weird. Online isn’t that great for me, but in person I feel like I’m a really hot guy without even talking to anyone.

[Opinion Owner]

for the big d thing it's basically a dude who's assertive, confident, respected, popular, cool, kinda like the center of attention, kinda the main dude in general with people especially with other guys, very good with girls, that kind of thing (not necessarily to that extent but in that ballpark basically)

[Asker]

Nice

[Asker]

But how big do you like the D? Girls tend to think I’m 7 inches. I’m 6-7 inches and thick.

[WonderBell99]

I could do the same experiment. I could post a picture of a below average girl and then a hot one and then compare the amount of matches both receive. Obviously, the hot girl would receive more matches. It’s a no brainer.

Most of the people on dating apps are looking for casual flings, nothing more. Would you rather date a hot girl or a below average looking girl? Anyone who says ONLY personality matters is clearly lying. Personally, BOTH looks and personality matters to me. If I’m not attracted to someone, I cannot and will not date them. Of course, I’m not asking for too much. I do not want a guy who looks like Matt Bomer or David Gandy. I would much rather be with someone who is a 6 and has a great personality.

The thing is, EVERYONE on dating app is shallow. How do you think dating apps work, genius? You post your best pictures and the amount of matches you get determine whether you’re hot or not.

Besides, there are TONS of fake profiles, scammers, bots and catfishes on Tinder. Dating apps are a waste of time.

You notice someone’s looks first. If you are attracted to them, only then would you be interested in getting to know them romantically. I simply refuse to believe that romantic true love is unconditional.. because it’s not. You need to meet certain conditions for them to date you and fall in love with you.

Looks attract me, personality makes me stay.

[WonderBell99]

TL;DR I’d rather date a guy who’s a 6 and treats me right than a 9 who treats me like shit. The 9 can go fuck himself

[Adronicus]

I don't do tinder, I prefer approaching in person where I'm at an advantage, online dating you're at a disadvantage as a man & also setting yourself up for the social rejects AT BEST.. How you can make a woman feel trumps looks, money.

[boggboss]

You act as if this is a women thing when it is a human thing in online dating looks are the first thing u see so ofc that's what people will be attracted to first u think this is any different for ugly girls?

[Asker]

Yh but men don’t lie about it

[boggboss]

Lol many men lie and claim they want a completely natural women yet the most famous and big women that get attention are dolled up

[PrettyPriya]

Hahaha you are calling girls hypocrites and you are pretending to be other people by posting the pictures of other guys. The irony of this is priceless. So, you post someone that isn’t you to see what responses you get as an “experiment”. First, what does it matter what responses you get? It isn’t you!

So, since we are making assumptions here, I’m going to say most guys are deceitful, like you. You are faking it and then calling girls hypocrites. Again, the irony is thick.

Girls that only care about looks and nothing else are superficial and don’t care about the things that really matter. I look for personality first and foremost.

You can be the best looking guy in the world, if your personality sucks, which I expect from someone who fakes who they are, I won’t give you the time of day. Sure, I have to be attracted to them but that isn’t the most important thing about a person. This question gave me a good laugh so thanks for that at least.

[Asker]

It’s called an experiment. There’s no irony here. I completely disagree with you. I’ve learnt a lot about women by doing it. They’re all hypocrites.

[Asker]

Everyone knows there’s a lot of fake profiles on there so they should use it at their own risk.

[PrettyPriya]

Yeah, including your fake profile. You just add the the problem.

[FreedMan]

This poll landed exactly proportionately where I'd expect XD lol

[Avicenna]

Well, it's not hypocrisy unless they expected guys to go for the less attractive woman

[Anonymous]

Because with the hot guy the physical is already there. Now they’re wondering if they connect with him emotionally.

[In_Trance]

No more or less than guys are