Why would a guy say on the phone “if you hook up with a guy I want you to be honest with me” when I told him I got invited to a guy’s party?

[Sarahleee_123]

And then he goes “im going to let you go now because I might say something stupid” why did he get irritated? We are just friends

[MrOracle]

You are not "just friends." YOU might feel that way, but HE does not. As a rule (and, yes, a tiny number of exceptions exist), a single straight man is NEVER "just friends" with an attractive girl. The time and attention you get from him aren't because he sees you as a friend - it's because he wants to be with you. Sometimes that just means sexually, but often it means romantically/relationship-wise.

Please do not be under the delusion that you can have male "friends" - you can't. Not because it's impossible for YOU, but because it's impossible for THEM. Men don't have female "friends" - they just have girls they haven't banged yet. Obviously this is different for men already in a serious relationship, or for men who are gay or asexual, or perhaps for a very tiny few who, say, grew up with you your whole life and see you as a sister, but those are the rare exceptions.

You've got this guy in the Friend Zone, but that's definitely not where he wants to be...

[Jouth]

I want to put mints in my mouth

fresh breath

[Anonymous]

Guys typically get territorial over females that they hope to be with. They try to ward off any other guy that may challenge them. He definitely likes you more than a friend but doesn't want to admit it. Just yet.