He was staring at my bosom for like 9 seconds. Why?

[Anonymous]

why would a male coworker stare long and hard with wide eyes directly at my bosom for like 9 seconds while we were chatting and working and facing each othee? im used to him looking at my breasts tbh but this was honestly excessively long and dramatic even for him. I was surpirsed and honestly a bit uncomfortale. i dont wear low cut tops either. Although sometimes my shirts can be a bit see through in the wrong light cause theyre thin or cheap :/ but i wear bras so I don't know

[PeteBy]

Staring that long is a bit creepy.

When I was younger this sort of thing was a real predicament, especially if she was beautiful. We're attracted to boobs, we're also attracted to everything feminine and that includes looking in her eyes.

I've had that on many occasions where I am having an inner argument with myself. 'Don't stare at the boobs, DO NOT stare!' so I stared at her eyes, OMG her eyes are gorgeous 'Don't stare in her eyes, don't do it' stare at her lips. So I stare at her lips. OMG they are so beautiful, I wish I could kiss them. 'Don't stare at her boobs, don't stare at her lips, don't look in her eyes. Look around the face, look around the face. LOOK AROUND THE FACE!

[Asker]

Aw. Props for having virtue

[CountryWanderer]

He's staring at your breasts because he likes the way they look and doesn't care how you feel about it. It's creepy

[Asker]

Yeah im confused by it

[laraWM]

It is really rude and disrespectful.
From my experience, guys always tend to stare the boobs no matter what you are wearing.
Maybe next time you should tell him to look in the eyes to make him uncomfortable instead of you

[devilish-cutie]

he probably wasn't aware, it was atomatic, his mind blank

[Asker]

Wow he's crazy lol

[devilish-cutie]

its just natural for men

[jimmy2]

Heoves looking at them