If a guy tries to get a reaction out of you/make you jealous then ghosts you, what is he trying to do?

[babe444]

[FilmGuy93]

Probably trying to get you to chase him. Whatever he's trying to do; don't do it. He's showing you who he is right now; please believe him.

[babe444]

Ok I will. I just don't get it, he's been doing this for 3 months and now he deleted our chat. Didn't remove me (yet)

[FilmGuy93]

He's probably just an extremely immature person who is out of touch with his emotions and doesn't know how to deal with intimacy, so he's taking that damage out on you right now. It's not you or anyone else's job to help him work through that stuff.

[babe444]

He's a player and brags about how many girls he had.

[FilmGuy93]

yeah... why are you still talking with this person?

[babe444]

I'm not he ghosted me lmao

He kind of led me to believe that he felt something with some small things he did but given that he's a player it's probably that he just wanted a pump n dump

[FilmGuy93]

It goes back to what I was saying before. Regardless of what his intentions are; he's an emotionally damaged person who needs to fix his personal bullshit before he can have a healthy connection with another person. Even if he had the best intentions in the world with you; it just doesn't matter.

[babe444]

Thanks

[FilmGuy93]

Happy to help! Best of luck

[Kichbazp_]

I think he wants Your Attention...

[babe444]

Thanks

[LooneySins]

Sounds like an ass...

[babe444]

He is... and he loves to brag about number of girls he had

[LooneySins]

... pathetic

[Luckycharms12]

You have his attention

[babe444]

But he feels nothing right? If he ghosted me? Didn't remove me yet but he deleted our conversation

[Luckycharms12]

Gets your attention when he wants. When he isn't talking to you there you are thinking about him a lot of people do that game

[babe444]

Yeah I feel like he loves to do that. He starts streaks on Snapchat then breaks after a while, then starts the next day and again stops. Except today when he definitely ghosted me.

[Luckycharms12]

Play him at his own game make him think of you

[babe444]

Thanks

[Luckycharms12]

No problem

[Tamera952]

Be manipulative in some way?

[Xtendable]

Sounds like stupid mind games

[Sunflower19]

Play games.

[Anonymous]

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