Would you want to support your husband?

[Anonymous]

If you have your own career and he has a successful business and is lacking support. What would you do?

Yes I would want to support him

No I wouldn’t and stay in my career

[SueShe]

Take my reply of your other question under this title

Girls, Would you want to be independent or support your husband?

Basically, you are asking whether a woman (once again) has to sacrifice everything so that the man (him again) can profit and benefit from cheap or free labor to boost his ego and so he can say "I did it all by myself", is that correct?

Why should a woman jeopardize her own career and future to support a husband that will eventually cheat on her once he is successful?

To quote your own words "That’s a big red flag for me..."

Finished the sacrifices, finished the slavery, finished being taken for granted. We are not living in the 18th. century where women were given no rights whatsoever and were coerced to do whatever the man wanted.

We have evolved since then. Men have misused women since the beginning of humanity. I am looking forward to the day when men are subjected to all the things they subjected women for so many centuries and perhaps they will learn something about it.

By the way, you are aware that having multiple accounts is against the rule of this site right? I will check with GaG administrators and I strongly suggest you delete this account since it was created after the other one.

Also, let me make a screen print of this question, just in case my reply disappears by miracle. One never knows.

[Someguna]

You wouldn’t make a good wife. Any good woman would be a rock to their husband. If he’s a good man he’s always sing her praises to everyone about how amazing his wife is and how lucky he is. That’s a dream couple. Not you.

[SueShe]

@Someguna No of course I would not be a good wife because I do not agree with the concept that one person (usually the wife of course) has to sacrifice everything to boost the ego of the other.

[Someguna]

That’s the point a good woman wouldn’t see it as a sacrifice but potentially Avery good decision. Especially as her children might want to take over a family business.

[Someguna]

If the woman felt undervalued she doesn’t have to go through with it or go back to what she was doing. Or date a better guy. I don’t want to get married to a woman that’s like too independent and a bit of a cow. Those women aren’t marriage worthy, they should marry themselves

[Someguna]

Anyway, what I’m looking for I know exists, some girls are better than others.

[SueShe]

Let me see if I get it right.

The woman is investing tens of thousands in her education to become a physicist while her husband would like her to abandon her career to be working as cashier in his toy store because that is what his passion is.

Would you abandon everything that is important to you and that you worked so hard to achieve so that you can can work in a menial job just for the sake of the guy's pride?

Of course you would not and you know it.

[Someguna]

Where the hell would a physicist graduate get in life realistically? If they do a physics degree their future job role would probably be a physics teacher.
She could support her husband and each other they could grow a business that would earn a lot more money between the two of them!

[Someguna]

The more of your family you have in the business the stronger it is.

[Someguna]

It sounds like your pride is over the roof

[SueShe]

@Someguna So, for you money is the prevailing factor. How sad!

[Someguna]

It is to you haha

[letuswaltzforthedead]

This is something you talk about before getting married. If a woman is set on being a career woman, she is unlikely to suddenly become a housewife or demote herself to a less-than-ideal job. Same goes for housewives and women in similar positions. Plus, support him in what manner exactly?

[Emmss]

If he is hard working and is actively trying to make things better. He'd always have my support. No matter what. I can give him all I have, he should put his efforts too though.

[Batmanismydaddy]

I dont get why so males support B. You can still support your significant other and work on your own thing

[Nikki1989]

I would support him in every way I can.

[Guy13]

It would be supporting my wife.

[Iron_Man]

My wife