Girls, Would you want to be independent or support your husband?

[Anonymous]

Let’s say you have a different career. But your husband has started a good business and is lacking support.

Independent - stick to own career

Support husband with his business

[SueShe]

Basically, you are asking whether a woman (once again) has to sacrifice everything so that the man (him again) can profit and benefit from cheap or free labor to boost his ego and so he can say "I did it all by myself", is that correct?

Why should a woman jeopardize her own career and future to support a husband that will eventually cheat on her once he is successful?

To quote your own words "That’s a big red flag for me..."

Finished the sacrifices, finished the slavery, finished being taken for granted. We are not living in the 18th. century where women were given no rights whatsoever and were coerced to do whatever the man wanted.

We have evolved since then. Men have misused women since the beginning of humanity. I am looking forward to the day when men are subjected to all the things they subjected women for so many centuries and perhaps they will learn something about it.

[dustybiker]

Depends on the business and how difficult it is to find the help needed. There is always a way to do both.

[TacosRAwesome]

Keep my job / career because most businesses fail or aren't that successful and I know that my job is sure income. That said, if he needs help in evenings and weekends I'll do it.

[Anonymous]

I would rather make my own money.

[Asker]

That’s a big red flag 🚩for me. Unsupportive wife. These types of women are also the least loyal and least connected to the partner. A caring wife would want to help her husband, I’m glad my mum did!