What should I do, should I text him first or not?

[Anonymous]

I was online at 3:am with someone talking about my life? and my boyfriend saw me when i was online and fought with me he even said that if you are not able to sleep so you will be busy with 3 other guys at 3 am... i told him that i was just talking to him normally, was talking about my life... but he didn't understand and fought with me and stop contacting me.

[PrettyPriya]

I'm really confused. Your story, while I can somewhat follow what happened... I cannot figure out who you are asking if you should text. Your boyfriend? These other guys? Who are these other guys that you are talking to at all hours of the night? Friends?

A little more context might help the rest of us here give you a better answer. You might want to consider using the update box to make an update to your question with a bit more context to the situation. Should you do that, I will certainly revise my answer.

I will only assume at this point that these guys you are talking to are friends. Why so late though? If they are truly just friends, then your boyfriend should have nothing to worry about.

As to if you should text "him" first... I need to know who "him" is. If it is your boyfriend, then sure you can text him first. Couples fight. It happens. Someone needs to be the first to communicate and that might as well be you.

[Asker]

I was talking about my boyfriend... should I text him first? That was my question... and yes that person was my friend only... i was sad and depressed that's why I was talking to him

[PrettyPriya]

Okay, then yes you can text him first. Also, what is his deal (boyfriend)? Are you not allowed to have guy friends? That, to me, is crazy. My fiancé has zero problem with me talking to my guy friends.

[Asker]

I don't know if i am allowed or not... he has also his girl best friends but i have never said anything... but yesterday when he saw me online at 3 am he was like that what you doing.. i don't like such people blah blah blah... i even sent him screenshots but

[Asker]

And i texted him first but he ignored:(

[PrettyPriya]

Sorry asker. You tried. Yes, you are allowed to have guy friends. You shouldn’t be with someone who restricts who you can talk to. That is controlling and wrong.

[Guy13]

Go ahead and text.

[Guy13]

Your story line is difficult to follow, by the way.

[Asker]

I did but he ignored

[Guy13]

oh well... you did all you could. Enjoy the weekend and ONLY 2 pics on Social Media... so he knows but not obvious !!!

[bubblegunnn]

Yes sure text him

[In_Trance]

Text him

[Asker]

I did but he ignored... i don't know what to text him pls help

[In_Trance]

Call him

[Asker]

He is not answering

[In_Trance]

Al you can do is go and see him face to face