Should I text him or not?

[Anonymous]

I hung out with this guy (my crush ) twice at his house, we cuddled and kissed but soon as I left his house after that day if I don't text him first he won't either. And I've always texted him first just cos I miss him but I can't tell him that, when I asked him if he was in a relationship he said he just wants to fuck around that he's not really ready for a relationship, but I am. But he kisses me each time I see him and I like him, so I just want to know if he likes me just when I see him, or he just wants to fuck me, cos I just want a relationship but he doesn't, I've not texted him for few weeks now and he still did not text me and I don't wanna look desperate, please help a girl out

[BetaBucks]

He made it clear that he wants to have sex, but does want a relationship. You should believe him. He's not saying that to trick you or to make you feel bad. He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. And if you want to know why, we can start that conversation, but I don't see how that's helpful here.

[Staximus]

The guy just wants to use you for sex, get rid of that bum

[Booklover_90]

He’s not that interested in you. If so, he’d be texting you, planning dates, etc. Move on with your life.

[Booklover_90]

Plus, he’s already told you what he wanted. Just to mess around. Why are you looking for a different answer from him?

[Asker]

Thanks for the reply, but we're still friends though so I can still text him based on that maybe not visit him again cos he'll try to kiss me again, I'd be sad to move on but I will, thanks again

[Booklover_90]

Even if you’re just friends, the texting should be mutual, ya know?

[Avicenna]

Yeah, you should text him

[Anonymous]

Yeah sure