Guy's Behavior

Should I text him or not?

I'm in love with a guy but he is against relationships or feelings because of his fear of commitment issues and because he's not ready for marriage. He doesn't want any relationship. He feels like he's gonna cheat if he was in any relationship because he's not emotionally stable, and blah blah blah. I started to feel hurt because I did my best to impress him but he doesn't show any niceness and he rarely says a nice word to me unlike before, even though he keeps flirting with other girls who are mutual on social media. I was the one who initiates everything. I'm the one who starts the conversation. I'm the one who went to his city just to meet him. I really did everything that I could do to show him how much I love him but he doesn't show any emotions with me. I stopped talking because I don't want to end up heartbroken because of all those failing efforts that I did. When I avoided talking to him for 10 days he replied to a story on WhatsApp and I replied to his message with no enthusiasm as before and without running any conversation as I used to do.
P. S. He used to ignore my stories before so it's a rare thing for him to reply to it. And he keeps viewing my stories and I'm afraid that he would think that I'm toxic because I showed all my affection but I stopped talking all of a sudden even though he knows that I'm so obsessed with him. What should I do? I don't want to keep exerting effort and starting conversations because the more I talk to him the more I get obsessed about him.
Is it okay to stay like this? Should I wait for him to talk? or should I talk to him from time to time?
I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE OR HURT HIM.
By the way, I know him for 9 months and I used to talk to him every day.
Should I text him or not?
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