Should I text him or not?

[sunny22721]

So I've known this guy (A) for years now. We used to go out when younger every now and then, stopped and started again this summer. He kind of always flirted with me. We met again after 2 years at the end of June, after that we started talking on Instagram and on July 1st we met up with other friends. It wasn’t planned. When he drove me home we stayed for 2 hours talking in the car outside my house. The weekend after, however, he told me that he didn’t know if he wanted a relationship at that time, which was fine and we just stayed friends. However, going out with the same group friends brought us closer, we kept joking and he often flirted with me (our friends could see that too lol). We would talk outside my house often until one day he confessed he wanted to kiss me, invited me to dinner and after dinner he kissed me. He kept stopping by my house every night to talk and spend time together, even when he went to the beach he kept saying I should have went with them but I didn’t go because of another friend. This friend (M) is childish, always complain, focus everything on herself etc. Likes attentions and all. Everything is fine with the guy but on Sunday M. does one of her usual “scenes” and on Tuesday she also decided to talk to another guy in the group (S.) about her “feelings” which only made him more confused. From those days there was a weird vibes among everyone. I try to talk to the guy I've been dating for days but it felt like he was avoiding me. On August 1, he tells me that the situation had become pressing he couldn’t stand my friendship with M. she always has to know everything that was going on. So he thought I was the one telling her (not true) and couldn’t keep going with that because “too childish”. He stopped replying (I texted him the next day to tell him it wasn’t true, he didn’t say when we met. I know all of this is childish but I want to make up with him. They were right about her, tried to warn me but I didn’t listen. Pls no “leave it” lol

[Minaisconfused]

I would get rid of all toxic people in my life, not because you should do so to win him back, but because if she is trouble now she’ll be trouble in your next relationship. Get rid of her, text the guy and tell him you understand where he is coming from and then leave it. Give it time. Don’t force it. If he is the guy he’ll come back. If he’s not, well there are plenty of other guys.

[Viktor001]

You can try, maybe ask one of your friends to talk to him before it's too late, and definitely remove all toxic people from your life.

[Anonymous]

You don't have a voice?

[In_Trance]

nope

[sunny22721]

Thanks. Can you explain more why?

[In_Trance]

The timeline that's why

[sunny22721]

What do you mean?

[In_Trance]

If it's been this long and nothing has happened, I don't know why you think now it's going to.
I think you like the idea in general, but this isn't the guy

[sunny22721]

It’s just been a week since we last talked

[In_Trance]

But neither of you did anything in the years leading up to last week

[sunny22721]

We were young and never single at the same time until now

[In_Trance]

There's a reason for that

[BigDog1989]

If ya want