Guys, WHAT IS GOING ON WITH MY BOYFRIEND?

[Anonymous]

Hi! So I’m going to be very quick:

I’ve been in a 2 years relationship with this guy that has always been crazy about me (we’ve traveled together, he buys me so many gifts, he’s proud of me and my achievements and is very attracted by me as I am a model/ have a lot of attention on social media). We’ve had our countless ups and downs in our relationship.
During our Last trip, we got into a huge argument. Things got abit heated and he disrespected me, I ended up pushing him leading up to us deciding we would see if we want this relationship to continue once we are back home. He was very negative about it. (we decided to stay and enjoy our trip together that ended up being amazing).

This guy hasn’t taken any responsibility for his actions during the fight and even in general and usually blames our issues on me. I know he loves me very deeply but his behavior hasn’t been the best.

Now we got home and he would message me each day but he has gone silent and no contact for 5 days now. He liked my pic yesterday, what is going on with him? does he want to end things like we’ve discussed the day of that fight? I am so confused and disappointed in his behavior.

[Danny_dan92]

Your relationship is done.


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Classic toxic relationship, if you don’t want to put up with this bs. Here’s a solution for you, breakup. You can get dick elsewhere if that’s the only thing preventing you from leaving him

[Asker]

I’ve been thinking about leaving the relationship but so many things bring us together I am still indecisive. He loves me and I love him. I have apologized on my end for what I did but he didn’t apologize.

[Danny_dan92]

Like I said.

[Asker]

The question was more leaning towards his behavior and not what I should do, but thanks.

[spartan55]

Have YOU taken responsibility for pushing him, including apologizing? Also, wtf does you being a model have to do with any of this?

[Asker]

Absolutely I have apologized many times

[20yearsolder]

Have no clue, send him the message asking if he wants to end the relationship

[Asker]

I’ve already made the first move a couple of times and I was the last one to reach out so I won’t do it this time.. thank you for your input

[Anonymous]

Wait and see what happens keep talking you’ve already traveled together

[Asker]

Thank you! But how do we keep talking if he’s gone silent on me?

[Opinion Owner]

Call him

[dragoblack]

Tell him "we need to talk". Sit down with him and talk about whats going on, if things start getting heated say "let's take a moment to calm down."

[Shamalien]

Without more details what can we say. What did he say to disrespect you? There is way more to this story than you’re letting on so cut the shit and tell us what the real problem is

[Asker]

He keeps on screaming at me when we argue when I told him I hated it, also he starts being vulgar while speaking to me and literally dismisses my feelings when I say he’s being disrespectful.

[Asker]

He literally says he’ll decided on Whether he feels like HE disrespected ME which is not ok to me.

[Shamalien]

What did he do to disrespect you?

[Waldoe]

so... he always accepts the blame for All disagreements and MUST apologize? Yeah, I would leave too...

[Asker]

He never takes the blame for anything and rarely apologizes. I’m
The one that does even when I feel like he’s wrong just for the sake of peace.

[Asker]

So I don't know where you read that

[Asker]

I said he always puts the blame on me for all the problems in our relationship and not the other way around

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

2 years, without marriage talk?

Don't you think you oughta

You're not getting younger

[Asker]

He told me he wanted to move in with me and follow me as I’m leaving our country to go abroad.

[Asker]

So he is serious

[Asker]

Also I’m 20 years old, marriage can wait

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Marriage can NEVER wait

[Anonymous]

what was the fight about?

[Asker]

Him being disrespectful

[Opinion Owner]

in what way though? what was he saying?

[Asker]

Just his way of talking to me when he’s mad. It’s like he loses respect, he yells at me very loud for example