Girls, What is going on with this guy?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone! I am new here. Just need some advice or thoughts, to be honest. I work in retail and go to med school. There is a worker not a boss be he is above me in job title, who works there, he followed me all over and stares non stop. He is thirty three, lives with his mom and has seven kids, has slept with half the store, I am in no way interested. He finally left the store in my city, to work where he lives. It is about forty minutes from the city of the store where I work and live. I'm not sure if I am making too much of it or being cautious for a reason. I only work there two days now and he comes down on the days I work every other week or so, drives forty some minutes, stares when he sees me and runs around the store being everywhere I am says nothing and then leaves? If I leave the store, like the end of my shift he is sitting in the parking lot watching me in his car, he stares it creeps me out? During the winter he wore a disguise like would wear a mask and then a hoodie, now in the summer he cannot do that. I don't want to make too much of it but I also do not want to underestimate anyone? We never dated, barley spoke, never went out but he used to yell at other male employees for talking to me. If anyone can give me some feedback, I really appreciate it! Thank you so much!!

[SueShe]

This guy is obviously a creep, a stalker and a pervert.

You state that he has had sexual contacts with many people at the workplace and it is just obvious that he is going great lengths to try to get into your pants as well.

If you have the feeling that he is stalking you and targeting you in particular, then you have 2 options.

1. call the police and tell them about your suspicions

2. talk to him in a public place where there are a lot of people around but in a place that is not your workplace or another branch office of the company you work with.

Make sure that you are telling him that you are not interested and that he should leave you in peace. I would even recommend that you surreptitiously take the entire conversation with voice recorder of your smartphone. This could be used as proof in case he attempts something with you. Good luck.

[Changiis07]

Girl! BE CAREFUL!! And yes make too much out of it. He is clearly stalking you what a creep. Let someone you trust know about him and how he looks try to take a video of him or something, do not leave alone or come in alone, you never know what he can do to you

[Nikki1989]

You have a stalker. Contact the police.

[Anonymous]

In no way is that normal, file a report against him. That's official stalker alert! Safe than sorry.