What’s up with this guy?

[Anonymous]

So there is this guy at work who seems to be on the quieter side, but can be outgoing with his coworkers he’s close to.

i have noticed that whenever I’m around him he gets quiet. The other day i came into the same room as him because I had to take out some stuff. There was a drawer and he was kind of close to it.

When I got near him he just moved away and I could tell from his face that he got nervous. I asked him why he always gets so nervous and he didn’t say anything.

The next day i was talking to a coworker (a guy) who is close to the guy I mentioned. When I was about to go for a break the coworker said to the guy “You should talk to (my name), she seems bored right now.”

The coworker who said that was laughing while the other guy was just staring at him with no expression for like 4 seconds, and then he just nodded.

what’s up with this guy?

[In_Trance]

this could be literally anything but most likely nothing. You're overthinking. Get back to work

[Asker]

Oh well, I feel like there is more to it.

[spartan55]

He's not nervous, he just isn't interested.

[Asker]

But why does he always get quiet when im there? I didn't even do anything.

[spartan55]

That means nothing. What does him being quiet have to do with you 'doing anything'. You seem to think everything is about you here, and it likely isn't.