What would make a guy suddenly go quiet? on socials etc that you like but kept playing games with you so you stopped texting them?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

So if you stop responding, then why wouldn’t he go quiet? I agree with why you did it, I mean if I felt like a guy was playing games then I’d be over it as well. But I couldn’t be surprised that he stopped trying unless it’s a thing to where I wanted him to chase me or fight for my attention, which isn’t always the case, and then would make you the game player..

[Asker]

Yeah I think he was doing that to me though he kept leaving me on delivered at night then would only text me if I reached out first and reply back really fast to me but he left me on delivered 3 times already and got fed up with it and it felt like a game

[Asker]

But I’m not too sure if it is so I stopped reaching out first

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t blame you, I think mutual effort is important, so for you to be doing all the work it gets old really fast. It would also make more sense as to why he’s silent, because he wasn’t putting in the work to talk in the first place.

[Asker]

I just don’t get why all of a sudden has silent on his social media since I haven’t reached out like all his socials kinda weird but yeah I mean I really like him a lot and care for him but it made me mad and I’ve been crying for the past two days lol

[Asker]

I wanna reach out cause he’s silent but I don't know if I should

[Opinion Owner]

Breathe and let it go. Old what happened between you two, and who knows maybe you’re just more disappointed than anything but you can’t force something where it doesn’t fit. If it’s not important for him to maintain contact and put in effort, yeah it can suck especially if you like him a lot, but he’s not the only guy on this planet. There’s plenty of fish in the sea and eventually you’ll find someone who is really, truly all about you. I’d given up and never thought I’d find my person, now I’m in my first serious relationship at 30 after many many failed situations. Your time will come, but you won’t get it when you aren’t open to receive it.

[Opinion Owner]

**old should be I don't know, this site loves messing words up lol

[Asker]

Well it was a shitshow so he msged me on TikTok and we started talking things turned sexual and a couple nudes were sent them found out he was taken then he blocked me on insta then deleted me from snap or deleted his snap then unfollowed me on TikTok then told me to text him as friends so I do leave it friendly to respect the girlfriend but I caught feelings already And now I’m like mad lol

[Opinion Owner]

He’s got a girlfriend? That’s the part that stuck out most to me😞. But it would also make sense why he’s being slow to respond and stuff, he’s in a relationship girl. You don’t feel like it’s better to stay away? Especially knowing that you like him a lot and he’s willing to cheat? There’s nothing good about that.

[Asker]

Girl exactly that why I’ve been stuck in my head it’s like I don’t talk to dudes with a girlfriend. And I’m struggling now cause I have these feelings and I don't know what to do now it’s like why 🤦🏼‍♀️😭

[Opinion Owner]

I get it, I’ve been there too. But if you only met him on TikTok then deleting him so he’s not in sight wouldn’t be hard. I’m sure you don’t want to do that, but the last thing you want to do is go after someone else’s man. Not even a good man, I mean look what he does behind her back, you don’t want that to be you lol the separation is good and more respectful.