I was the only who he chatted with on whatsapp regularly. Now he he checks his whatsapp once daily and spends couple minutes there?

[Anonymous]

Is he thinking about me?

we haven’t talked to each other now for almost 3 months.

[Sour-rose]

Yeah he is, probably wanna keep you on whatsapp so he can know you all the way to when you move your bones. :)

[Asker]

I never update my statu though

[Asker]

Status*

[Sour-rose]

Well do ya respond when he talks to you?

[Asker]

We haven’t talked in almost 3 months. He’s the dumper.

[Sour-rose]

Ah, well maybe let nature take it's course. By that I mean, let him keep checkin and you keep silent.

[Asker]

Why do you think he’s checking on me?

[Sour-rose]

because he misses what you two had, and may still have feelings for you. Maybe.

[Asker]

So he checks if I’ve messaged him?

[Sour-rose]

Yuup :)

[Asker]

Why doesn’t he just reach out to me instead..

[Sour-rose]

Well he could and probably start up something or fail to and feel like a total idiot for trying. Oor just keep what he's doin'

[D-Pad_Chad]

It's called notif, checks. No notifications, close. Are you inactive towards him? Was all the effort 1 way? Maybe he noticed it.

[Asker]

We haven’t talked in almost 3 months. He’s the dumped me. Before we used to chat regularly.

[D-Pad_Chad]

Have you tried being proactive and messaging him?

[Asker]

Before I stopped messaging he didn’t want to talk to me then. Are you saying that I should reach out to him again?

[Asker]

by the way he was the dumper.

[D-Pad_Chad]

Dumper? Were you two officially dating? That wasn't mentioned. I asked if the effort in the conversations/instigation of conversations was one way. Was he always messaging you first? If so he might have felt you weren't interested. Also did he have to carry conversations? Were you giving short or one word answers to questions? For example:
Him: "how was your day?"
You: "Fine"if so this =🚩/🥱

[Asker]

I feel like at the end it was the other way. I think he really got upset after I was very late for our date. It was our first date. After that everything went downhill. I was reaching out first. Our last conversation he was very short with me and he didn’t even open my message. I then after 6 days deleted my message and went into no contact.

[D-Pad_Chad]

Ah I see. That speaks volumes more than the initial question. Frankly it sounds like he moved on given this info.

[Asker]

What shows that he has moved on?

[D-Pad_Chad]

It just fits. You left a bad impression, late for the date, guys on the whole will be nice and wait out a bad date, but it's not uncommon to hit eject afterwards if it goes south. I'd imagine the date told him whate he needed to decide if he should stay or go. That's really about it.

[Asker]

So me being late really upset him?

[D-Pad_Chad]

Depending on the person, some have higher tolerances for delays, others, like myself, do not. And Depending on how late you ran & how well or bad the date itself went again he nay have felt i wasn't worth date 2

[Asker]

He waited for me 40 minutes. I was late from original set of time 1h. He himself was 20 minutes late.