Checking social media but not following you?

[Anonymous]

I recently went out on a date with a guy things went well etc etc, he was out of town afterwards so I haven’t seen him since, I reached out once and we had a brief text exchange of a few messages. He asked about some stuff he knew going on in my life etc. He hasn’t reached out since, if he’s not interested then cool fine whatever his loss, but he keeps looking at my social media but isn’t following me. So he’s clearly curious about me but he isn’t saying anything…is he interested or not? I would reach out but I already did that previously and I think the ball is in his court. I also did catch him riding/circling his bike by house too, but again he’s not saying anything to be and I’ve already made my moves…

[Guy13]

He is interested. I don’t get his behavior though ⁉️

[Asker]

Do I need to sit back and play hard to get? Or does he have confidence issues and do I need to say something?

[Guy13]

I think you are going to have to ignore him and let him Creep through your life. I think he is really seeking attention and will not follow though. Do you get that Vibe?

[Asker]

Do you think eventually he will reach out and say something?

[Guy13]

Eventually but still…I don’t see the great attraction as he seems a little creepy to me.

[Asker]

I’m just so confused with the whole situation. We went out hooked up, minimal talking since, he’s been at his family’s second home finishing up summer. He’s back now, I make one run public, and the next day he circles my start and end points on his workout through town 3 weeks after we hooked up

[Guy13]

I don’t think your guy has much of a heart for people outside of himself, other than, those that make him look and feel good.

[Asker]

I am just beyond confused why 3 weeks past since the hook up, halfway through the span of that time he asked about something important in my life, we have a brief exchange of text messages and that’s it. Then at 3 weeks i catch him trying to figure out where I live. His actions and lack of communication do not add up

[Guy13]

It does not make sense as it seems he’s trying not to be linked with you BUT still trying to FIND you…. where you live. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[Anonymous]

Be very careful, he sounds like a stalker.