Why does he share Instagram videos with me at least once a day but not say anything else?

[Anonymous]

This guy that I’ve been talking to for two months sends me a lot of Instagram reels, like almost everyday but doesn’t actually talk to me much more than once a week now. Both of us have pretty busy jobs and I haven’t been able to find time for us to go out. He use to always ask why I never messaged him first, and I felt bad for not doing that but I’m scared of hurt and rejection.

Is he doing this to keep me around or is he doing this to try and start a conversation with me?

[Guy13]

All predicated on a serious commitment where proximity of location are the Same. Not LDR in any form. This is at least 6 months one-one:

As a man who has enough stress to deal with the last thing we want is more emotional bombardment from our women whether text or conversation. When I do what this guy does, I have already spoken to you about the Dissertation texts you are sending me and to stop 🛑 it. Worry wart is cute but if it evolved to Fussy Pot (grandma origin for too much whiny) then Videos. She knows I’m thinking about her.. not up to anything…but I’m not dealing with all the insecure emotional 💩.
Basically, you are in Stage 1 of Detachment. There are others but the eventuality is finding another that does not stress us out. At that point the Final stage is signified by 👻 👻👻👻

[Asker]

Not really understanding what you’re trying to say. I don’t “emotionally bombard” this guy at all. I barely say a damn word to him, because from my experience, when I start being consistent with a guy, they start pulling away. Maybe you misunderstood this post.

[Asker]

And I don’t send him any paragraphs, or nag him, or question him. Nothing.