We ended on good terms after talking for 2 months and hungout 3 times. I am not contacting him anymore but he never stops liking my photos, why?

[Anonymous]

[Changiis07]

Probably wants to see if he will get a reaction out of you. Like maybe you will reach out to him if you see him liking your photos but well we aren't completely sure. I mean if you guys ended on good terms then liking photos is normal. Also depends why it was left on good terms

[Asker]

I mean we are both good people and I am just that type of person where I always like to end on good terms. He treated me so well and I honestly didn’t see it coming. I thought things were going great.

But I also knew he was just getting out of a relationship 4 months ago. It was 2 years long distance. Our mutual friends introduced us and right away he was all over me we had such a great time together. I’m a little shy in the beginning too when I first meet someone but I don't know if that was it. He told me he just wasn’t ready to make that same type of commitment with someone new again after jsut getting out of one.

I personally don’t get why he’d like every picture of mine even if we did end on good terms because we talked for two months straight and were intimate. He was so affectionate even in front of our friends so it’s hard to understand how he could go from that to liking my pictures all the time. Do you think there is something there still? Do you think he’ll come back?

[Changiis07]

There could be something there still yes. Thing is it's unfair for you to have to wait for him. He didn't have the proper time to heal from his previous and almost sounds like you were his rebound. He needed to feel wanted and such and you gave him that. I say do not waste your time. Time will tell but it's best you just ignore the likes and don't act on it

[Asker]

Yeah, I definitely won't act on it. I will continue no contact and if he wants to come back he can. We have mutual friends. My best friend is married to his best friend so if anything , he knows how to get ahold of me either through them or me directly.

It’s crazy though , because I was in a bad relationship prior and he treated me terribly. This guy was very kind and genuine. It caught me off guard too bc he was so affectionate with me and not to sound weird but he would kiss me a lot. It was so sweet. He never hid that we were a thing because whenever we were around our friends he’d treat me as if he was claiming me as his. People could definitely tell we were talking.
He told me I treated him very well, better than most people he has had in the past. And that he was glad he met me and got to know me. He also hopes there’s no bad mojo if and when we cross paths at our friends house.
But I hope that’s not him saying he never wants to come back if he realizes that he misses me and wants to reconnect again down the road. Do you?

I won’t wait around for him but I do think it was crazy how much effort he put in to everything.. he texted me every single day always asking how my days were going , wanted to know about me , very affectionate like I had mentioned. He did tell me that when we first started talking he went into it with an open mind with the possibility that anything could come out of it. But realized he wasn’t ready for a commitment right now.

[Changiis07]

Exactly he knows how to contact you and with social media if he wants to be a part of your life he will. So only time will tell, plus you came from a bad relationships maybe this was just someone you needed in your life so that you know how someone should treat you and for you not settle for anything else. Maybe it won't happen now but later down the road a few years from now if everything aligns for you and if it's God's will e can potentially be for you. Life surprise us. Glad you are not waiting for him. Yeah I mean it is crazy all the effort he put but guys tend to be hurt for some time and take longer to commit when broken up

[Asker]

I agree and I’m not sure why he continues to like every picture I post. I would like to think he is still attracted to me and that there is still something there. But like you said , he will contact me again if he chooses. He was a great guy. We are both good people. So I hope our paths cross again. But until then I will continue on with my life.

And you’re right, guys do tend to take a bit longer to commit again. Hopefully when he is ready things will align.

Thanks for talking with me.

[Changiis07]

I'm sure he is still attracted to you and which is why he continues to like them. So keep on showing him you have moved on and then if he is for you he will show you. If not then I'm sure there is someone who won't leave you wondering where you stand with them

[Asker]

Thank you

[20yearsolder]

Baby because he still likes the photos?