Why he still keeping in touch even tho he no longer likes me?

[Anonymous]

I still like him and I realised that he is kind of avoiding me even tho he text everyday. I feel so sad. I'm not good at talking. I feel like I have turned into a freak and needy. What am I supposed to do?

[Oliverlogan263]

It sounds like a confusing and painful situation. Here are some possibilities for why he may still be keeping in touch even though he no longer likes you romantically:

• Habit - You've developed a routine of texting daily, and old habits can be hard to break. This doesn't necessarily mean he still enjoys the texts or wants to continue them long term.

• Courtesy - He may feel it would be rude to suddenly stop texting you altogether without explanation. So he replies to be polite, even if his heart isn't in it.

• Loneliness - Some people keep former crushes or partners around out of loneliness, even if they no longer have romantic interest. The attention and familiarity can feel comforting.

• Limited social circle - If he doesn't have many other close friends, he may value your companionship and interaction even on a platonic level. But this doesn't mean he wants a romantic relationship.

• Avoiding conflict - He may find it easier to keep replying to your texts rather than having an honest but difficult conversation about how his feelings have changed. This is a passive approach.

Regardless of his reasons, the best course of action for your own emotional wellbeing would be to have an honest chat with him. Something like:

"I've noticed our texting routine continuing as normal, but I get the sense your feelings toward me have changed. I wanted to check in openly and see how you're feeling now. I still have feelings for you, so I just wanted clarification on where we stand."

His response should give you clarity and allow you to determine next steps for protecting your heart. But don't blame yourself - unrequited love is never easy. I hope this perspective provides some useful insights. Please let me know if you have any other questions!

[RoseySarah]

Well he has you on a emotional leash and is not entertained by you but likes the attention so he will keep doing it till he finds someone better to crush on and leave you int he dust!

Course your needy hr is not meeting your wants or needs Hun! Time to find someone better or try talking with another women!