He has a girlfriend and kept pursuing me for months but I refused to have something casual with him or to get involved in any way because I don't want any kind of drama. However, he still continues to talk to me. He left the office where we worked together recently but still wished me on my birthday this week with hearts emoji and gave me wishes. I don't understand what's up with him. Why does he still want to be in touch with me when I have made it clear I don't want anything with him?
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Some people can be incredibly pesky and creepy and he's one of them. He gets the hint but thinks sticking harder might persuade you to change your mind.
It's great that he left your workplace. Block his contact and don't reply to any of his advances. He'd stop eventually. But in the worst case scenario, if that sick man shows up to your workplace or your home, you can always file a complaint again him.6
Why do you care? Just ignore him, block his messages so you don't see him.1
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he still wants you hopes you change mind11
He really likes you.3
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Because if things don't work out with his girlfriend he will think it's still ok with you if he weasels back into your life. If he quits staying in contact he will feel like he has lost his touch with you and coming back wout be too hard then. This lady I used to know was all set to marry a man. They even bought y house. While she was fixing up the house And getting ready to get married and live in the house, he cheated on her and ended up marrying someone he had just met. The guy stayed married to that woman for about 10 years. All the while he would occasionally call the woman he dumped, send her birthday presents and cards in the mail every year. He kept in touch with her. Then one day all those years later he left his wife and showed up on the doorstep of the lady he dumped. They ended up getting married. Amazing what kind of a thing's can happen, one never knows.
I don't bother with him at all. Had stopped talking to him 2 months ago and was ignoring him so badly that it was even rude. Even when he left the office he said goodbye to me and I didn't even respond then. I thought he won't bother with me now now that he has left but that's not the case.