Why does he stay in contact with me?

[Anonymous]

My ex was unhappy in our relationship and wanted to break up with me. He thinks I need therapy or need to work on myself. He still stays in contact with the me though?

[Paris13]

He may Still have Faith in You. xx

[Anonymous]

There could be a variety of reasons why your ex is staying in contact with you, even if he has expressed a desire to end the relationship. Here are a few possibilities:

1. He wants to maintain a friendship: Some people are able to transition from a romantic relationship to a friendship, even if the romantic aspect of the relationship didn't work out. Your ex may genuinely value your friendship and want to continue to stay in touch.

2. He feels guilty: If your ex initiated the breakup, he may be feeling guilty or responsible for hurting you. Staying in contact with you could be a way for him to alleviate his guilt or make amends.

3. He's keeping his options open: It's possible that your ex is staying in contact with you because he's not completely sure that he wants the relationship to end. He may be keeping his options open in case he changes his mind or wants to explore a reconciliation in the future.

4. He's trying to help you: If your ex genuinely believes that you would benefit from therapy or self-improvement, he may be staying in contact with you as a way to offer support and encouragement as you work on yourself.

The reasons why your ex is staying in contact with you may be complicated and multifaceted. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with him about your feelings and needs, and to make sure that you are both on the same page about the nature of your relationship going forward.

[Pterodon]

Because you allow it