Why hasn’t he kept in contact with me if he claimed he likes me?

[Anonymous]

[Changiis07]

Maybe he is busy. But if someone truly likes you, you will know

[spartan55]

Why haven't you kept in contact with him?

[Asker]

I have. I texted him and he hasn’t answered. This usually isn’t him

[spartan55]

Do you ever see him in person?

[Asker]

I have seen him in person. We go to the same college but we have a break right now. I haven’t seen him for 3 weeks. We both like each other. We actually texted last week but than he stopped texting me. So I stopped as well. 5 days past and I’m like let me text him to see how he’s doing. He hasn’t answered me at all.

[Asker]

Mind you there are times he disappears from college as well. He won’t show up until 3 weeks.

[spartan55]

Seems like you aren't really high on his list...

[spartan55]

Is he your boyfriend? A guy you are dating? Having sex with?

[Asker]

No. We met about 5 months ago

[Asker]

But we been talking a lot in school.

[spartan55]

Okay, that doesn't tell me what your relationship is...

[spartan55]

So... nothing? Some guy you talk to?

[spartan55]

So you haven't gone on a date? Hooked up? Nothing?

[Asker]

Nope.

[spartan55]

Okay... so I don't understand what your expectations are with this guy?

[Asker]

It’s just a long story. But thanks for answering back to back. I guess your right tho.

[spartan55]

What do you mean, a long story? I don't feel like I've helped much.

[Asker]

So basically I met him about 5 months ago. He transferred to my college. He started talking to me first. At first I was like why is he talking to me and just bothering me in a goofy way. Later on I started liking him. He started touching my hand and I let him cause I felt comfortable and he kept just him flirting with me. He even asked me when will he meet my mom I was like for what he said for us. Mind you we wasn’t dating and neither are we yet. Later on we started getting more comfortable around each other. He told me how he had a bad past relationship. I notice he started missing school and his job in general literally for a month. I got his phone number from a friend. I told him I had his number because he offered me his number but I told him a friend gave it to me he said text me. Time past school ended. I texted him first and we kept going back and forth for a week. Later on this week he kind of stopped texting me. Mind you he invited me somewhere and told me he would like me to come with him I said I’ll see what day I’m not busy. He said okay let me know what day. But he stopped texting me.

[Asker]

I’m just confused I guess. I don’t know if he is busy. I don’t know if he’s okay. I don’t know if he lost interest. I don't know anything

[Asker]

Mind you He came back to school looking differently meaning his hair color he said he had to.

[Asker]

I’m literally concerned even my friend told me what does he means he had to. He actually told my friend this and my friend told me.

[spartan55]

Okay... and... so what?

[Asker]

My thing is should I move on or wait a little bit to see

[Asker]

To see if he contacts me

[spartan55]

That's up to you. But I would keep whatever your expectations are very low.

[Asker]

Ok thanks