He never again responded. Does it seem he’s just not that into me?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Well if you're last text to him was " good stuff it was lovely to meet you well the movie was great."

Then yeah it seems like you enjoyed the movie more than him, but neither of you suggested that you should do it again. Or that you vibed with each other in any way... so yeah it all looks like a courtesy text but nothing special.

I, as a guy, usually make an attempt to see how she feels at the end of a date and ask if she thinks she'd want to do it meet again before departing. But at the same time I love it when a lady shows an interest in me and does not completely leave it up to the guy to keep the conversation going.

So if I was you I would follow up with another text... I would say something like...

"Just checking up with you, curious if you would like to go out again. I really enjoyed our last date... but if you're are not interested I understand."

I have sent this text before to a girl, and more time than not I got a reply like this "what makes you think I am not interested, I would love to see you again" the other half of the time I got no reply or some bull shit response that I never followed up on. And usually when the girl got no text from me the following day it means I didn't feel a vibe and if she didn't care enough to text me the next day or check on me, or even say good night or good morning... then I am not going to chase after someone who can't take some initiative to get back to me especially if it comes off that she enjoyed the movie more than me.

But I would always say if your interest follow up... and if you don get what you want then move on fast.

DonkeyDan · Accepted Answer

For starters your last message only has one frey tick on it which means he hasn't received it, if it had been delivered to his account it woyld have 2 grey ticks, and of he'd seen it they would be blue ticks.
Also that last message where at the end you say "welll the movie was good" suggests that you enjoyed the movie but not his company and that was the only thing that was good.

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little_bird1 · Accepted Answer

My opinion is that he is not interested. If I learned anything, it's that it's really hard to fuck up the right thing. When a guy is really interested in a girl he'll be happy with any positive response, even if it's just 'k'. I think your text was good.

Avcfhcic · Answer

I actually though his post movie text was positive. With the multiple s in thanksssss :)
How long ago since he last responded?
Maybe if you want to see him again, message and see if he wants to meet up? Because your first text after the cinema seemed a little edgy

Aurora1010 · Answer

It never got delivered if it's still on one check mark. It got sent to the server but not delivered nor read, delivered is two check marks and read is two blue check marks.
Either he isn't active on the app, doesn't have internet connection, or he blocked you (if you can see his profile picture you aren't blocked).

TreeMan18 · Answer

He is probably just anxious, or insecure or not ready for commitment. Try not to overwhelm him or he will ghost and bury his head in the sand if you do really like him, take it slow and ask if you want to meet up somewhere like a cafe?

Somegirl678 · Answer

i honestly dont think he sounds interested lol, if someone is interested in someone why would they text back something so short like that? when u think about it, wouldn't they text back somehthing more enthusiastic

BrightShadow2186 · Answer

Well it would seem as if he hasn't even gotten the message you should try messaging again or maybe even calling his service could be off or the message could of been deleted or moved to spam by accident.

rockytherock · Answer

He's got a life of his own, maybe he's busy. Give it some time and maybe ask about it when he responds but if he never responds then move on if you can.

arefin · Answer

depends on time. probably his friend is beating him not to reply and making him look desperate. if it goes three days and he doesn't reply then move on

Somoneelse · Answer

I see this post is from 4 days ago. Hasn't anything changed in that time? If not, he's not interested.

Sasha_Gee · Answer

He still has to reply, take it easy! It's looking good to me!

annabananna · Answer

How long has it been? I don’t think that text requires a response necessarily

Anonymous · Answer

I passed the blue tick, not even a double tick. I guess he hasn't turned on the Internet yet. I believe he will reply soon. Don't be sad.

Anonymous · Answer

here's a trick why dont you ask a random unecessary question and see what happens. Maybe something about the movie?

Jintendo18 · Answer

Movie for a first date was a bad idea to begin with. I mean did you guys even talk about anything at all or have a chance to for that matter?

Sheelah2 · Answer

"Lovely to meet you" is the polite way of saying "thank you goodbye". He doesn't wanna see you again.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Am I reading this correctly it took you 5 hours to respond to his 1st text?

yucel_eden · Answer

If you don’t get past the first tick in a few days he’s blocked you, forget him

Anonymous · Answer

If he was into you he would have texted you within a day or two.

Anonymous · Answer

Put it this way... a guy will go out of his way to make time for a girl he likes.

TheBootyChest · Answer

Sounds like he is a coward.

Flower7 · Answer

How long has it been since you sent the message?

HeartBreaker007 · Answer

Why did you copy his x thing

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

How long has it been? Doesn't have to be immediate

awkward_author · Answer

How long has it been?

es20490446e · Answer

I see no reason there not to talk with him.

Katrinaismyname56 · Answer

he either ghosted you Or his busy

loveslongnails · Answer

If he doesn't respond in 2 days, you don't exist.

Ironic_Method · Answer

What he supposed to respond with?

OddBeMe · Answer

Yeah…sorry. Shake it off.

Anonymous · Answer

Did he ever read the message?

Joker_ · Answer

You know who would respond to you? @Cringe would

wtf636 · Answer

He's not into you

cyclonerunn · Answer

Probably busy or ghosting you

Justi_n · Answer

Oh, he blocked you already girllllll

MrSmithee · Answer

no. you should respond

noohair · Answer

What do you think?

In_Trance · Answer

Yeah

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I can't tell.

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