I met this guy on a tour group I went on in Australia and it was obvious he was interested in me and flirted with me a lot. Once I left the tour he text me almost instantly and we stayed in touch for a while but then he suddenly ghosted me. After a few months, he randomly messaged me saying he’d just been on holiday and decided he wanted to learn Italian and as I was such an expert, he wanted to know the best way to get started. I asked if he wanted some of my teaching materials and he said yes so I sent them to him but he’s left me on delivered for days. It was weird that we hadn’t spoken for so long and he wanted my help with languages, despite never being interested before. He always used to hype me up about my job and tell everyone about the languages I speak/work with, so I’m thinking this may have just been an easy excuse to reach out to me and he may not actually be interested in learning Italian at all. I have missed him when we weren’t in contact and I would like to talk again, so I don’t really know what to do.
I've been in a somewhat similar situation. Dude hit me up twice after not talking for a long time and I replied the first time. No answer. 2 weeks later, I double text. No answer. Then 2 years later he hits me up again. I’d love to say that I knew my worth and ignored him. But the truth is that the text only went to my old phone and I only discovered the message a month later when I went on the phone for another reason. This boy had a history of showing so much interest in me but also none at the same time. I dont get it. Very weird. If you haven't already, tell him straight up how you view the situation. If it doesn't change, cut him off. I had told the guy in my scenario how I felt he was being strange and he apologized, but no changed behavior. I blocked all his numbers and socials. He did text me with new numbers but I just blocked those too. 🤷♀️
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My guess is he texted you when he was feeling lonely, but when the feeling passed he didn't bother anymore because he's not actually interested
Sounds like a Creep to me. He is not interested in you at all. It will never be a stable arrangement. Find someone close to you...
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think you shd bring something up casually to keep the convo going, esp something that you’ll know would be of his interests. i think its always ok to double text and shoot your shot bc well you’ll never know
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