When should I break no contact?

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend broke up with me a month and a half ago. The last time we talked was a month ago today. Right now he is living in San Francisco with his friend (his friend is the reason why we broke up) and I’m actually moving myself to San Francisco at the end of this month. I still really love the guy and I want him in my life. When should I break no contact? I am debating if I should wait either in 2 more weeks or until after I move, so a total of 60 days. I caught him checking my Instagram when my friend reshared a story that I tagged her in and this guy I’ve started to casually date; this was 2 weeks after no contact started then he checked again, a week later. I honestly want him to contact me first, but in case he doesn’t reach out by the time I move, when would be the right time?

Updates

15 d

I should also mention that we have been together for 4 years and that we lived together in Michigan. He broke up with me when our lease was ending (his friend I’m sure gave him the idea (idea to move to San Fran and build a business) because his friend is a manipulator that literally no one likes. Not even my exs friends), after he had visited his friend in California for a week.

[OlderAndWiser]

If he was that easily persuaded to break up with you, he was not dedicated. How could you ever again trust and respect him after this?

[MsProsperity]

Girl if you still love him and still want him, text him or call him now. Don’t wait for him to do it. Don’t wait for him to be in a relationship with someone else. Take your phone and call him before it’s too late!

[Anonymous]

Give it about 3 more weeks. People will tell you to not contact him but you know what action is best for you. Just don't get your hopes up and think of it as it will either bring a rekindling or or closure