Should I break no contact after 5 months?

[Anonymous]

I don't know how I still miss him so much. I just wish he'd just say hi. He dumped me 5 months ago in the name of personal healing and well I complained he hurt me too much and I was having attitudes he didn't want in his girlfriend... his statement not mine. That was very heartbreaking but I just can't help but miss him. I want it to stop but it's really hard. I just wish things didn't go this way. Sometimes I feel I can't love anyone except him but I try to remind myself that its just a phase and I'll be fine. It's so hard that I feel like breaking no contact. Though he reached out to try to get me back but he was never consistent. Should I break no contact?

[DaveJord]

Nope you need to move on, this guy has basically told you that you are not his type. If you break your no contact rule, he will probably engage with you to laid a few more times, but its not like you are a different person all of the sudden... in time you will revert back to your former self, and when you do, he will break it off again. He pretty much said he did like the type of person you are, and honestly that has not changed much.

Serious

[Asker]

But we dated for 2 years how'd he say that then come back are men that wicked

[DaveJord]

Men are women both, so do not say are men that wicked... look the more I date and shit I get put through yeah you lose some heart over it all. But yes, men will be that wicked. But if you want him back, then you got to see what it means to you, or you will always wonder what if.

Like I do not know this person, you know them a lot better than... so you got to trust your own gut on this one.

[Anonymous]

Just stop overthinking...
Do masturbate 3 times in day for 15days
And have a new guy n reguraly chat with him

[In_Trance]

No...

[fridge0]

No, don't contact him and move on.