Ex-girlfriend is trying to get me to pay a bill after she cheated and threw me out of the house. Should I pay?

[SeanGtrGuy42]

So, my ex-girlfriend is trying to get me to pay part of bill. The bill, it was for an abortion of an ectopic pregnancy she had while we were together so I am a guilty party to the pregnancy. However, she broke up with me and threw me out of the house and blamed the entire breakup on me. Come to find out she had been having an emotional affair behind my back for months prior to the break up and before I was even moved out of the house (4 days later) she already has her new guy spending the night in OUR bed. She didn’t show any empathy, in fact she was happy as hell the day I moved out. Towards the end of our relationship she would tell me that my father raised me wrong, I had no common sense, that I dressed like shit, that I was stupid, I was dumb, and that I was an idiot. A part of me wants to help pay for the abortion that I was a part of, but, I’m sorry you cheated and left me for another man and then blamed me for everything and took zero accountability. Additionally, she makes almost $40/hr and I make $13/hr and go to college full time (I’m trying to improve my life). She Venmo requested me for $1,000 out of the blue after ghosting me for almost 5 months. She knows I’m going to school too. This Venmo request comes after I deleted my Facebook account where I was friends with her Mom, daughter, and best girlfriends. I did this so I wouldn’t see any updates and to move on. My therapist feels like she’s using this bill to contact me because now she has ZERO access or information to me and what I’m doing. And, now she’s texting me about it. I didn’t block her number in the event that there was an emergency because I am a kind person and even given the cheating and discarding I would still help if she needed it. Her Mom told me that she bought a dog, still fixing up her house and busy with her new long distance boyfriend and out with her friends all the time. Why is she doing this now after 5 months of no contact? Should I pay the bill? Should I ignore her?

[Paris13]

Your Therapist Also Should have Added This Chick is Slick and Money Hungry. She had The Right to Break It Off But to Just Throw You Out and Then SHOUT-----Money? No Way. Tell her to Tell The New Guy She Moved IN, To Open his Wallet Now. Good Riddance. xxoo

[Paris13]

Tanks, Gag and Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. Try and VOTE HERE on Your own. lolxxoo

[Anonymous]

Are you certain you were responsible for the pregnancy? She was having an emotinal affair, but are you sure it wasn't more than that, and that the other man wasn't responsible for the pregnancy? That would be my question. If I were you, I would not pay anything without proof it was mine.

[Billlewis]

I know most guys probably wouldn't pay, but I'd pay it in a heartbeat.

[HelpfulWoman]

How long has it been?
If you do decide to pay, make it clear and written down to say you will pay no further costs. Then screenshot and keep for your records.
If it truly was a your child thing, I would say pay.

[SeanGtrGuy42]

The pregnancy was back in early June. She showed me the bill in early August at which time I told her that I’d have to see because I was going through a legal action from a car accident I was involved in. I understand that, morally, I SHOULD pay, but when I moved from multiple states away to be with you and you throw me out and a don’t even give a damn about where I’m supposed to go… well, that’s just cold hearted. All because you wanted to start a relationship with someone you were cheating on me with. Worst part; she and I were best friends for 23 years. Honestly, I’m not mad, I’m sad. I wanted to be with her for the rest of my life and I thought she wanted the same. Now we’ve both lost a part of ourselves and a best friend.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Ignore her. Block her number and all.

[Akam93]

Fuck no.