Should I break no contact?

[Anonymous]

For context, my ex and I officially split at the end of September and went no contact the first week of October. I broke up with her, and she is the one who asked for no contact for 1 month. We talked about stil being friends in the future ideally.
Well, it’s been almost 2 months and there’s been nothing but crickets. At this point, I’m starting to get worried about her as she and I have both had our mental health issues in the past. An intrusive thought I’ve also had is that if she doesn’t want anything to do with me anymore, she should say so, that way we get more closure.
This has been eating at me the past week. Should I break no contact?

[HollyK21]

You’re the one who initiated the breakup, so naturally she may not feel comfortable reaching out. Even if that weren’t the case, she just may not want to in general. I know time feels like an eternity post-breakup, but it’s only been a few months. I don't know if you could be a purely platonic friend without blurring the lines at some point, because your romantic feelings a most likely still there underneath it all. I’m sure she is fine, I’m sure you know in your gut she’s fine and fishing for an excuse to break the no-contact.

[OlderAndWiser]

"We talked about stil being friends in the future ideally." What makes that ideal? Usually, it is not a good idea. Why did you break up and who initiated it?

[strateguy632]

Yes.

[In_Trance]

No. Move on