Did I mess it up or did he just want to sleep with me?


I met this guy, right from the beginning I told him if he was just interested in hooking up that was fine, just be honest with me. He told me no, he didn’t just want to hook up he wanted to find someone he liked being around and to hangout. So I said cool, and he said he liked being around me.
We made plans and met up and ended up hooking up. Before hooking up he was really touchy feely like you would be when you’re in a relationship and I think I kind of rejected those from him because in my mind I don’t want to make him think that I have any expectations.
so after we hooked up he got dressed and so did I and I put my shoes on and all and went to grab my purse to leave. He asked for a hug so I gave him a side hug and he said, “oh so it’s like that.” He then told me I could hang out if I wanted to but I said no, “I don’t want to overstay my welcome.”

And now he’s been very short with me and leaving me on read, not responding, etc. was it just a hook up that he wanted or did I mess things up by leaving so soon? Does he maybe feel like I was just using him for sex? I don’t know. I’m going to leave it alone but I’m curious what went wrong.

Did I mess it up or did he just want to sleep with me?
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